Unable to love a person?
Hi there, hope you all are doing well. Recently I met a girl, I really do like her and she likes me as well. But am not really sure, if I really do love her and if I can see her as my girlfriend in a relationship. I had gone through four heartbreaks, and ever since my first heartbreak, I am unable to really feel love or that excitement of having someone in my life. I really do want to have her, as well as really love her, but how much ever I try I am just unable to express the love feelings for her. I don't know if its because I am not interested in relationships anymore or I am scared of getting heartbroken again. I am really not sure. Hope someone can help me with this. Thank you 💯🙌🏻
@peacelm10,
if you are unable to really feel love then I'd say that you are not in love, simple as that.
Love is not something you can force to happen, it is either there, or not.
Lots of people pursue love/look for love outside.
Forgetting that that kind of love, "Hollywood love" is just a bunch of emotions.
True love is in your self.
If you are able to unconditionally love your self, you true being, you will find that there is no more urge to pursue what is not true unconditional love.
