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What do I do

April 17th, 2021

I'm in a situation where I love my significant other(mother of my son) but she seems to be taking control over how I parent. She dictates what I say to them, how I say it, what I do and when I do it. It's so frustrating and completely made me regret fatherhood. How do I gain my fatherhood back without breaking up this family? Or, as I'm feeling, do I have to move on so no one can tell me how to parent?

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April 17th, 2021

Even now it's 6am I've woken up to care for my screaming son, who is calling for ME, and I'm yelled at by his mother "don't get up, leave him be" and continues to snore. Im sorry I cannot listen to that for hours so I sat up and said "idk how you can listen to this for so long but I cant." Now our biggest argument this morning is "I can't handle being a father" why? Because I wanted to comfort my son?? It wasn't going to wake her, she could be snoring right now but no, now I'm a bad father and I'm just so done with everyone telling me what to do. I have no control in my household...