What should I do?
I had a crush on this girl for almost 2 years, and we dated for a month a year or so ago, and then she expressed ahe wasn't ready, so I waited for her. She recently got a girlfriend (last wednesday), and it broke me, even though I'm happy for her, because she is my best friend. My other best friend, then admitted to me she liked me. I told her I could give it a try once I get over the one I had a crush on, but now I'm numb to romantic feelings. I told her about this, and I can tell she is going through what I went through when I found out my crush got a girlfriend. It was not a favorable position to be in. I don't know what to do about the friend that I hurt, though. I hate this.
@senpapi
hey there. i can imagine how conflicted you must feel, and i'm so sorry. unfortunately, i'm not qualified to give advice (also because i'm sure you know yourself a lot better than i do XD) and as such, i can't do much but give suggestions. perhaps you'd like to take some time away, or do something to take your mind off this for a while? you're really kind for thinking about the person you hurt, so congratulations on that :) hm, maybe another thing you could do is talk about it to a listener here one-on-one? i'm sorry i couldn't help more, though. all the best!
@windflowers Thank you very much for taking time to reply, I think I'll do that. ^^
@senpapi I see, it must be a tough situation to be in... I say talk to your friend about the feelings you experience, perhaps sharing how you both feel can help both of you deal with the feelings. Maybe even spark something :) Communication is key... besides dont let all your feelings simply buildup inside of you :) it is important to get them spoken out sometimes :) Talking to a listener is actually a good shout, you should definitely consider it.