When is it enough?
I recently found out for a second time my boyfriend was sending sexual messages to women. The first time i found out he begged me to stay and it wouldnt happen again. We have a son together. Now its happened again. He says it wont happen again, but when is it enough? When should i throw in the towel? Even though he didnt actually have sex with these women (from what i know) it still is cheating to me.
@WhitneySue528 Only you can decide when it's enough. Some people don't consider this a big deal because, as you said, it's just messages.
But that desn't mean you have to feel the same way or that you should accept it, etc. If you are not happy with it, then that's totally up to you and he should respect that. If he doesn't you'll have to decide what is enough and what you can accept.
If he doesn't respect you (and it seems like he doesn't if he's doing it even when he said he wouldn't) then that tells you what you need to know. You deserve better.
