confusing problem
Hey everyone!! So i'm new to this app, not too sure how it works, but I assume I'm doing this correctly. Anyways, this is about my ex🤦♀️ So we broke up about nine months ago, and he had a new girlfriend. We didn't talk at all since then, and I never lost my feelings towards him. He broke up with his girlfriend this past Sunday, and we've hung out everyday since Monday. He's the one initiating us hanging out, but it's all so confusing. We kissed for the first time today since we broke up. I would definitely go back to him, I'm just not sure if he feels the same way. I asked him today, "what are we even doing?" and he didn't seem to know how to answer. I don't want to just sit around and make my life revolve around him, if he's just going to end up ditching me...but i just don't know what to do right now. If anyone has any advice please let me know, I genuinely have no idea what to do.
@convivialTalker3016
Hey, welcome to Cups!
It sounds like you're in a confusing and uncertain situation with your ex. It's normal to have strong feelings for someone after a breakup, but it's also important to consider your own emotional well-being and not make your life revolve around someone who may not feel the same way.
It may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your ex about how you're feeling and what you both want from this relationship. You can ask him directly how he feels and if he sees a future together. It may also be a good idea to take things slow and not jump into a relationship right away, especially since the situation is unclear and confusing.
In the meantime, it's crucial to focus on your own self-care and not make any hasty decisions. Try engaging in activities and hobbies that bring you joy and happiness, and don't be afraid to reach out to friends and family for support. Take it one day at a time and remember that you deserve to be in a relationship that brings you happiness and security ❤️