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So the beginning of this month I checked my bfs phone and had seen that he had been clicking on links to onlyfans from girls on Instagram. I then went to his email to see that he has a account with onlyfans and he had gotten messages saying that his subscription has expired. I ended up getting on his OF account to see that he had subscribed to girls who were nothing like me.. and I seen that some where from our state and even very close to where we live and even one was from his city. When he found out that I knew he tried to lie about it until I showed him proof of the links that he had been clicking and he came clean. After many days of talking about it I feel like he gets mad when I always bring it up and it’s only because Its still bothering me and I feel like I cannot trust him, and I feel like he’s always doing something he’s not supposed to. One of the girls he was subscribed to he also had on Instagram and Snapchat… and I had seen she was from his area and that his friend also followed her. He claimed that he didn’t know her but after I mentioned it I seen that his friend had also unfollowed her. The other day his friends mom was over and had mentioned the same name as the girl he claimed he didn’t know so I started to think and checked her tagged pictures on Instagram to see that she was friends with another girl that his friends mom mentioned and his friend also followed her so that’s when I knew that he lied to me and does know her.. I haven’t brought this up just because things haven’t been good and we have been still kinda arguing over this whole OF situation… I still feel upset, and not enough for him and I don’t know what I should do…
I’m so sorry your going thru this!! It’s completely normal to feel upset, angry, or even betrayed by this. He’s going out of his way to look at other girls and that would make anybody feel uncomfortable in a relationship ! It’s not like he’s just looking at a girl on the street I mean he paid money to see them and everything. I hope you don’t feel bad for continuously worrying about it bc it makes sense for you to! I think having one more conversation about it with him should make you feel better. You can speak your mind and if he reacts badly then that should give you some idea as to what you want to do next. Hopefully y’all get this resolved !