Arguments with my boyfriend
I’ve been in a relationship now for over 8 months and when we first met we really clicked and talked a lot and enjoyed talking to eachother. he is the first guy who I’ve fallen in love with but we lately have been getting into arguments a lot over little things or I say things that annoy him but I don’t know how to stop annoying my partner I somtimes ask him somthing I don’t get the answer I want and it bothers me and we get into arguments like that but I would really like to stop to better myself for him I also get really scared if he will cheat especially that I’ve expiernced it in the past with my last partner and I know every relationship goes through the fighting stage I just really want to learn how to communicate better with him,I feel like I’m gonna lose him the more we fight and I really want to fix it since I love him
Hey. 😊 I know I am probably not the best person to talk to regarding relationship problems as I am still somehow unkissed and really unexperienced. But nevertheless I really want to try and help you. First of all I think a relationship is not a present from above. A relationship is hard work. In the beginning the feeling of having a crush on each other is so overwhelming, that problems are nearly unpossible. But at some point everything changes. And I think at that point you can really figure out whether you two fit together or not. Now it is time to work on your relationship. Talk about your feelings. Cuddle a lot. I know it sounds weird but emotional contact can raise extremely by cuddling or more. I know the scientific background isn't that interesting but with every cuddling session or maybe love you make, your body distributes Oxcitocin. The love and relationship hormone. But that's only a part. More important is to talk about your feelings. Tell him, that you feel bad about the current situation and the arguments. And try to work on it TOGETHER. In worst case you can try to reach out a professional. I really don't think, there is an age limit for relationship therapies. But I really don't think you should try to solve the problems by your own. And I know it hurts a lot and it can be scary. But don't forget the very very last option in case you really can't solve the problem. The divorce or split up. If you simply aren't able to get lucky again in your relationship you should definitely don't stick to forever. I know there are many possibilities in advance. But as last option you shouldn't accept a unhappy life. But I really don't think you will need to think about that last option. I am sure you will be able too be happy again together. ❤️❤️ Best luck and best wishes. Your eternal virgin. ❤️
Ohh. And regarding the cheating topic. If you love someone those feelings are completely normal. But you should trust him. Because otherwise it will completely destroy your whole relationship. But talking about your feelings is definitely not wrong. Tell him how you feel. Maybe if he doesn't know it already about your experiences in past. If he understands how you think and how you feel, he is maybe able to change something. Because your are not the only person who should work on the relationship. You should work on it together. ❤️
