College advice
So I’m a 19 year old freshman in college with no prior relationship or dating experience (virgin, no first kiss, no first girlfriend. Any tips on how to cope with this? Feel pretty bad about it and have no hope. If already tried to look on other online forums for advice but no to avail. I believe that my main problems are that I’m shy and insecure about my looks and overall have a self destructive mentality. Need some advice please.
@Hawk0415 Hey, I struggled with something similar and started going to the school counseling center. I wished I had gone much earlier in life! You are still young and have plenty of time. Keep in mind in college, many people do not want more serious relationships, although it can happen for some people. Maybe just try to take baby steps to make new friends, try joining clubs and activities you enjoy and maybe take baby steps to ask someone to dance or ask someone you like to get coffee. If you get turned down, try not to feel too bad about yourself; it's part of the process of just growing and putting yourself out there. :)
First of all, think about learning. This is the most important thing for you right now in my opinion. So recently I came across https://www.topessaywriting.org/do-my-homework and now I often use app to help with studying. When you are sure that everything will be fine with your studies, then you can think about relationships. Stop being so shy and be yourself first. You can really win a girl over with this. And don't be afraid because not having a kiss or being innocent at 19 is perfectly normal
