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Is it normal for me to be upset when my boyfriend mentioned he has thoughts of other girls he and I both know? I know its normal to have thoughts such as those and we cant control what one thinks about but ever since then it has made me very self conscious and I compare myself to others. I dont wanna seem like Im too sensitive or crazy or annoying about it bc I know that no matter who it is everyone has had a thought like that. But for some reason it made me uncomfortable hearing it from him.
@Chamychameleon
Ive always been taught that even when someone is in a relationship, they will still find others attractive, they'll still look at other. Even when they're in a relationship, their minds are still looking for possible future spouses. Even if they know they're in a healthy relationship. But this does not in any way mean that you are not good enough. It's completely natural, even though it hurts. Try not to compare yourself to others, because you are beautiful and loved and amazing. Actions speak louder than words. I know he loves you and wants nothing more than to be with you. Telling you this must've been hard for him, and it means that he trusts you. It will still hurt, but you guys can get through this together, I believe in you. I hope this helped.
I hope I'm not being confusing
@Stonestar not at all, dont worry