I am stuck. Please help me.
Hi!
I changed my education institution from a School to a coaching center (a institute which focuses only on certain subjects like Maths or Chemistry. Prevalent in Asia. ) In my old school there was a girl on whom I was attracted. We were in same class for 3 years and from beginning to end I only thought about her. I never talked openly and I was her competitor in few school contest. Once actually I lost to her but I don't know why but watching her smile made me happy from inside. I think I was in kind of one sided love. (I don't know really what "love" really is)
Now I don't have any kind of contact with her but I miss her very badly. Sometimes I wished her to come out of next door or she is my companion in studies. Currently I am preparing for a engineering entrance exam I think I am distracted by her in my own mind. Can you suggest some ways so that I can forget her.
Well you shouldn't just forget, rather put it in a "for later" box. You studies come first, and always come first, but you also need to keep your mental health okay. Are you in contact with anyone from your school? If you do, then perhaps you can somehow find a way to contact her.m, for the future that is. Trust me, I didn't know what love was either, and I still don't know. But love comes to all of us, it just comes at the right place and the right time 🤗. For your exam, it is an exam, and you need to study for it. For now put it off as I said, you don't need to think about her. If you continue to think about her, and it grows more and doesn't stop, at that point you should just stop thinking about her entirely. Because at that point it becomes less of an excitement and more of a drain on your mental health. I'm not really sure if this helps, but I hope it does. Hope all works out with that, and good luck on your exam 😊👍
