Is my bf falling out of love?
I’ve known my bf 3 years before going out. We’ve been together for about 9 months now. He’s in the military so that makes things harder. But the point is, about 2 weeks ago I had a full on breakdown infront of him. I was bawling my eyes out and was telling him how stressed, depressed, and overwhelmed I was feeling about life.
Ever since then he’s just been so distant. I feel like I pushed away. Or I made him realize that he doesn’t wanna be with me anymore.
Since he’s in the military we can only communicate through text right now. I noticed he stopped calling me “babe” and using typical lovey dovey emoji like before. I asked him why he stopped and he said it just does feel right.
I know it seems childish but idk it just really feels different since that one night.
I know he’s been stressed out bc of his work. So should I give him some slack from being so distant and un loving. Or should I ask him if he doesn’t want to be with me anymore?
Hey 😊 I’m sorry this sounds like a very tough situation… I think you should be direct and ask though. The pain of not knowing is longer and more hurtful than just knowing the truth. Once you learn the truth, you’ll be able to accept it and embrace it, whatever the truth might be.