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I still haven't moved on

User Profile: KuroTheSwagger444
KuroTheSwagger444 February 27th, 2021

I had met this guy in august 2019 and we talked for like a month, he was the first person to "show" me what happiness feels like. then i started overthinking and ghosted him. since then, he tried to get back in contact with me multiple times but i pretty much always left him on read and once blocked him. then after about a year, in october or september 2020 i contacted him again but one day his replies were very dry and short until he left me on delivered for weeks and then opened the chat in mid november and never replied (i asked him what's wrong). i've been thinking about him ever since we met and it hurts so much that he has never replied, idfk how to move on. i feel like we are actual soulmates.

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User Profile: sally2345986
sally2345986 February 28th, 2021

@KuroTheSwagger444 ghosting people is kinda mean and it seems he lost interest i would try consueling if things don't get any better or if all other options fail.

User Profile: filipinoboi
filipinoboi March 4th, 2021

Feels to me that he wanted to know you for you and see what would become of that. Instead, you acted indifferent to how he was by ghosting him. Which lead him to believe he was doing something wrong to the point where he realized that chasing you wasn’t going anywhere. When you started coming back to him he took note of that and was already at the point not interested. Work on how you feel with someone and vocalize what you wish to speak instead of ghosting.

User Profile: braveJackfruit5450
braveJackfruit5450 March 4th, 2021

He might have really felt the same way about you and really liked you especially if we tried to contact you many times to get back and maybe his messages are dry because he’s scared your gonna ghost him again or block him and doesn’t want to be hurt maybe call him or text him explaining why you did it and it might reassure him. I really hope this helped