No social connections
I am 19. I recently moved to a new city about a year ago. I feel my future is hopeless. I haven’t made any friends, relationships, and I hate my job but I have to pay my bills. I wanted to go to college but my family told me not to because I am too stupid. I am desperate for social connection. I need help.
@CannyTundra
Hi Canny! I hope this messages finds you well! I am sorry to hear that you are going through this difficult time. I can imagine that things may not be easy for you right now, but I want you to know that your future is not at all hopeless. I promise you that you are not stupid and that if you want to go to college, you are smart enough and strong enough to do it. You are not stupid in the slightest. You can do anything you set your mind to and you are amazing! Have a great rest of your day and remember that we are always here for you!
I'm 18 and I moved to a new country for studies... I feel so alone and lonely every day, making friends is so hard and trusting them is even harder. It's so lonely when you move. But idk, it's the only thing that really made me rely on myself fully, because I know I'm the only person I can trust to always have my back.
I think a lot of people go through this transition... it's difficult. I miss my home but then this is my future. It sucks having to start from zero and just .. learn to survive all over again, but I know it's making me stronger and helping me grow as a person.
I think that powering through it will do the same for you and I truly wish you the best.
Small and silly tip, get a plushie. It really helps???
