Overbearing Personality
Hi. I have very bad social anxiety, I’m quite good at making friends but I’m awful at keeping them. I’ve experienced betrayal in the past so now my brain thinks that everyone is out to get me so I tend to push anyone who wants to get close to me away. I haven’t been able to keep a job or make any friends at jobs nor do I go out and party. The few people that I have tried to keep in contact me never message me back so I think they just don’t like me… I think perhaps I can be annoying and overbearing.
please don’t say that!! i’m currently in the same situation as you and i think i understand how u feel.if they don’t want to talk to you, it’s their problem, but it’s not because of how u are! but if u have doubts, what i did was ask one of my friends if they thought i was overbearing, and when they said no i just realised it’s because i don’t open up and talk to them enough.
maybe try to get closet to them, and if u need to make sure they won’t try to leave you after.
sorry this is all over the place, hope it’s helpful.
