Please Help me!!
Sooo... my ex-best friend (in 6th grade, i'm in 8th grade now), had/has a crush on this guy so much that she framed his ex for bullying her when she didn't. She told me she was being "bullied", so I told the teacher. Few days later after some investigation, they found out her plan, and she confessed that she planned the whole thing. Now, some people think I'm at fault for telling the teacher in the first place, and think I should apologize to her(even when I think I did nothing wrong). And my friend asked her if she liked me, and she said " Yeah!! of course! I've never had any problems with her." Yet, I still see her give me the "eye".I hate how she's being so fake towards everyone, and sometimes she would pretend to be "popular and gangster" to fit in with the crowd. And over the past year, I've been talking and bonding with the guy she had a crush on(not on purpose), and now I think I'm falling for him, but I'm scared that if I do, and she finds out, it's going to stir up more drama. What should I do?! Please help meee!!!
@secretOrange9545
I think you need to understand that you are responsible for the consequences of your actions. So I do think you will feel better about yourself if you apologise to the girl you accused of bullying, even though your wrongdoing was only in your poor choice of friends at that time . You believed a liar, but that's your fault too.
I don't know what you should do about the boy. An adult approach - which, mind you, most adults would find excruciatingly difficult - would be to discuss it with him on date number one. Honestly is best.
@secretOrange9545 Although I think you should apologize to the girl you accused of bullying, you're not at fault for this. Your friend told you she was being bullied, and you did the right thing by telling an adult about it. Because what if she hadn't been lying? You couldn't have known, but you should apologize for accusing someone of bullying, even though it wasn't your fault.
I have, were cool with each other. And Rachael (the one that pretended to be bullied) framed the ex(laela) and they made upa dn are best fiends now. But I dont think laela likes me.@Linz831
