Was i right to end it?
My bf fought with my friends then told me to not contact to them. I tried to understand the matter first.i heard from both side and found out that he was in the fault.. i tried to make him understand where he was wrong but he thought I was siding with them so he made me choose between him n my friend. when I refused to choose one he got extra mad and blocked me on social media and calls. when I later got in contact with him. he said either i choose him or i could leave him (my bf) to go with them(my friend). inbetween he constantly asked me to choose either person. when I refused he went to my social media acc and blocked all of them (my friend) from my acc. later things got out of control he brought up my past then degraded me said very bad and disrespectful words. so i broke up with him. later he called me to say sorry but kept saying that it was because of the way i protected my friend made him that defensive and say those words. did i did the right thing?
@plumZebra2158
Hello there!:)
I am so sorry that you are going through this challenging time and at the time I am so proud of you that you reached out here. It is really inspirational for other people including me, you know?:)
Being in relationship is just like to dance tango. You need to be together and apart and still be like an art, like the beautiful dance of two souls. That doesnt mean that there wont be any struggly, maybe the right opposite, but we hurt where we care.
And in that dance, one person helps to the other one, both support their shoulders and dynamicly move through the music of life.
Love is not only feeling. Love is a commitment. To respect, to communicate, to be there, to support, to feel, to fight and in the end, to love.
Also the concept of right and wrong, fault and blame... simply doesnt exist. Nobody is right, nobody is wrong, nobody holds blame or fault. Everything is relative yet still we are trying to label things, people and feelings.
I believe that everything happens for a reason, as well as i believe in YOU. You got it. You are stronger than you even realize.
Sending strenght, energy and hugs. Dont ever hesitate to text me and reach out.
Lots of love,
🌸Hana🌸