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User Profile: landonorris04
landonorris04 November 12th, 2022

I am in a relationship right now but the boy like ADORES me unconditionally but I don't like him as much as he likes me. I feel like every time he like says to me I love you and i say it back, it makes me feel so bad because it feels like i don't mean it. I'm so scared that I am a bad person and I can't hurt him. I just don't know what to do. Any ideas for help?

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User Profile: Skansly
Skansly November 12th, 2022

@landonorris04

you need to sort out your thoughts first , if not him then what do you want in your ideal guy?


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User Profile: landonorris04
landonorris04 OP November 12th, 2022

@Skansly

ngl probably someone like my ex boyfriend but like my current boyfriend. Basically a combination of both but more my ex. Like, my ex boyfriend was amazing but he didn't like show me he really liked me whereas my current one does. Basically, my current boyfriend's gentlemanly behaviour in my ex boyfriend would make the ideal guy.

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User Profile: Skansly
Skansly November 12th, 2022

@landonorris04

Do you believe that is it possible to find the perfect guy ?

(Cause you love him less than he loves you)

Whats the specific reason for being seperate?

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User Profile: imhumannn
imhumannn November 13th, 2022

He deserves the truth. if you feel bad saying I love you and not mean it but your scared to hurt him, I think you’re already hurting him. Being in a relationship includes communication, honesty, and love etc. If that doesn’t tick the boxes you should tell him the truth because the truth hurts and you should just let him go so he can give the love he’s giving to the person that he deserves.