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afraid I’ll never fall in love

User Profile: elise106
elise106 October 18th, 2022

I’ve had a lot of crushes that haven’t worked out and I’m starting to get anxious that I’m never gonna be attracted to someone again because I’ve been hurt by people before and that I’ll be unable to fall in love someday and that I’m cursed or something or that I’ll be single the rest of my life. How do I deal with this?

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User Profile: magneticShoulder3193
magneticShoulder3193 October 19th, 2022

@elise106

I'm sorry you are dealing with this. I can definitely relate. It can be hard to even entertain the idea of trusting somebody again after getting hurt. I would say that you shouldn't put too much pressure on yourself to find someone, it can often take time and that's okay. Also as difficult as it may be, try to have faith that you are worthy of finding someone that will treat you well and not hurt you. I'm sure you'll find someone! It can also help to talk to someone you are comfortable with about this if it is deeply concerning you. And distracting yourself by doing activities that make you happy can help as well.

Hope you feel better, take care!