SABR
Assalamwalaikum
The more i grow up the more i realize i keep getting less and less attached to this duniya
when i think of trust i think of ALLAH SWT
M at that phase of life where everyday feels like a test
My Sabr ya Allah give me strength pls i keep reminding myself of sabr sabr sabr its worth it trust him
m crying while typing this its so difficult to keep patience
I hope one day i get back the desire to live life for myself cos for now i dont wanna live after few years i dont have interest in anything sigh
JAZAKALLAH KHAIR
@Thvcoreslay Walikumsalam,
this world is like a jail for believers. You will be given ajar for everything that you bear.
I also read somewhere that asking for Sabr is like asking for more calamity because you cannot learn Sabr without difficulty. May Allah give you enough strength to overcome this challange.
Allah also tells in Quran that he never burdens a soul beyond which that they cannot bear.
All time will pass. In Sha Allah
you need the will to live in this word where you can do more good deeds.
@Thvcoreslay
Wa Alaikum Assalam,
I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way. I know how heavy life can get when it feels like every day is a test and you’re running low on strength. It takes a lot of courage to admit that you're struggling — that in itself shows how much trust you have in Allah (SWT), even when your heart feels weak.
It’s okay to feel tired, to feel overwhelmed. You’re human. Allah (SWT) sees your pain, your tears, and every moment you hold on, even when it feels like it’s too much. He promises that with hardship, there is ease (Surah Ash-Sharh). It’s not just words — it’s a guarantee from the One who never breaks His promises.
You keep reminding yourself of sabr, and that shows incredible faith. It is worth it, even though it feels impossible right now. You are building a closeness to Allah that no trial can take away. Every time you trust Him, even when you’re at your lowest, you’re planting seeds for a future you can’t see yet — a future where you’ll look back and see His wisdom.
I know it feels like you’ve lost your desire to live for yourself. That’s okay for now. Give yourself time to heal. Focus on living for Allah, one small step at a time, and ask Him to bring back the light when He knows it’s best. You’re not alone, and this feeling won’t last forever. Just keep talking to Him. Cry if you need to. Say whatever is in your heart. He’s always listening.
Please take care of yourself. Don’t be afraid to lean on people who care about you, and know that you are in my prayers. You are stronger than you feel right now, and Allah will never let your patience go to waste.
Stay strong, even if it’s just one breath at a time.
JazakAllah Khair for sharing your heart. I you still have some confusions you can visit Quranislove.com it helped me alot.
You’re not alone.