any psychologists or councellor to help?

Sara, you'll be hard-pressed to find a licensed psychologist/ therapist/ counselor on 7 Cups of Tea. As wonderful as listeners are, they are just not trained professionals and I highly doubt that doing such a session over 7 Cups of Tea as a medium would be ideal (you are obligated to not record and save any conversations and any conversation you do have is under 7 Cups of Tea jurisdiction, anything that goes wrong - you'll have less control over the situation). Have you considered looking and researching online for actual and legitimate online counseling services and/or telephone counseling?

Hi Sara, I am a trained councelor and would be happy to listen to you

Angelika