Offline messages

So I've been a member here for about a week now.

and at the beginning I could leave offline messages for the listeners that I'm interested in talking to

i usually got to browse listeners > click the blue icon with the chat box

but now I can't. If the listener is not available to take my request, they won't give me the option of leaving a message anymore

instead they ask me to become a member so I can leave an offline message.

but I already am a member ! 😮