Cyberstalking—A Real Crime
Cyberstalking—A Real Crime
1st and foremost, what is stalking? 
Stalking can happen to anyone. It is serious, dangerous, and can get worse over time.
Stalking, in the traditional sense, involves following someone in a way that causes the victim to be afraid or upset, for instance:
•Following someone on foot or by car
•Watching someone at work or at home
•Sending unwanted letters or emails
•Making unwanted telephone calls or
•Leaving unwanted cards, flowers or gifts
What is, Cyberstalking?
Cyberstalking, simply put, is online stalking. It has been defined as the use of technology, particularly the Internet, to harass someone.
What are the risks of being cyberstalked?
1. Identity theft
a.Having your online accounts being taken over
b.Having your contact details obtained and used
c.Location and tracking of you by GPS on mobiles, tracker devices or spyware on phones
d.Having false profiles posted on social networking and other sites
e.Having malicious websites, blogs and social networking sites created about you
f.Impersonation of you being used to stalk others, positioning you as the guilty party
2. Being discredited(Or False accusations)
a.In social media and other online communities
b.In your place of work
c.Others being provoked to attack you
3. Receiving direct threats through email/instant messaging
4. Stalking or harassment of your relatives, friends or colleagues (on average a stalker will contact 21 people connected to the victim)
5. Escalation to physical violence
6. Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
(I highlighted in purple the most commonly seen threats)
Is cyberstalking a real crime?
Although local police department's capabilities in dealing with such crimes may not be sufficient, stalking is a crime in all 50 states and the District of Columbia (In the Unites States). However, legislation on cyberstalking varies from country to country.
How can we protect ourselves from cyberstalking?![]()
1. Review what online information exists about you and keep it to a minimum.
a.Do an online search for your name or your family members' now and then to see what's available about you and your kids online.
b.Review all your privacy and security settings.
2 .Regularly change your e-mail and passwords for key online accounts and keep them safe.
3. Avoid public forums
4. Ensure that your computer and mobile devices have updated antispyware software installed and turned on
What can we do if we are being cyberstalked?![]()
1. Gather and document as much evidence as you can.
2. Report the stalking to the police.
3. Seek help and support from relevant organisations, for example the National Stalking Helpline on 0808 802 0300, or email advice@stalkinghelpline.org (In the Unites States).
4. Most social networking sites have a means of reporting such issues, use the relevant platforms.
Discussions(Let's brianstorm together!!!):
1. Is cyberstalking a crime in your country?
2. Are there any relevant organisations or helpline that support cyberstalking in your country?
3. Have you had experiences with cyberstalking? Would you mind sharing them?
4. Are there any other tips for protecting ourselves from cyberstalking?
Further Reading:
1. National Stalking Helpline(For the United States).
2. Attorney General of Massachusetts on Cyberstalking.
@terrytee
1. Is cyberstalking a crime in your country? ans: Yes, Its a crime in Bangladesh. a new law to tackle cyber crimes, with provisions for a maximum punishment of 14 years in jail for offenders.
2. Are there any relevant organisations or helpline that support cyberstalking in your country? Ans: Yes,Bangladesh govt's Cyber Emergency Response Team .
3. Have you had experiences with cyberstalking? Would you mind sharing them?Ans: In my facebook account's other message inbox is fill up with shitty text, threatning text, naked picture of senders.
4. Are there any other tips for protecting ourselves from cyberstalking?Ans:
Well cyber stalking is not a avoidable issue. In Bangladesh many activitist blogger killed by some crazy cyber stalker . We need to protect us. Their is no privacy in Internet now-a-days. So we cant share our personal info with public. We usually go to resturants, parlour, hotel, public places...e.t.c and post publicly on internet.we should stop giving check-ins, travelling informations. locations,phone numbers.
@soul700 I'm sorry you have had experiences with it, but I'm glad your country has a dedicated law for cyberstalking! Thanks for sharing those useful tips, much appreciated! ![]()
@terrytee Thank you for bringing this up and discussing very important points. I do believe that cybercrimes such as these are becoming more and more widespread and common (in other countries).
1. Is cyberstalking a crime in your country? In the Philippines, we have a recently-passed law (just last 2012!) called the Anti Cybercrime Act. I don't think it directly penalizes stalking. The most related crime to cyberstalking is cyber identity theft, which involves, as mentioned in your post, stealing personal information of others for crimes. Unfortunately, I do not think harrassment and potential bullying is covered by this law. A more specific bill, called the Cyberstalking Bill, was introduced in the congress in 2014, but I haven't heard of any updates on the status of the bill.
2. Are there any relevant organisations or helpline that support cyberstalking in your country? There is a group assigned to monitor cybercrimes, the Anti-Cybercrime Group of the Philippine National Police, but I am not sure if they serve as a helpline for victims.
3. Have you had experiences with cyberstalking? Would you mind sharing them? Fortunately, I don't. My colleagues often mention the concept of "stalking online" a lot, but they mean it in a humorous way (like following a celebrity crush on his Instagram, etc.). I haven't heard of violent aggression or assaults caused by cyberstalking in the news so far, which is, hopefully, a good sign.
4. Are there any other tips for protecting ourselves from cyberstalking? There are a lot, but I think the most important thing we can do to prevent becoming victims of cyberstalking is to remember the fact that everything on the Internet is permanent. Before sharing information about ourselves, libelous or harmful ranting, going on a fight in a Facebook status, or posting a picture that can be used against us, we should remember that social media, like Facebook alone, has billions of users. Even if you only have a hundred of friends, which make up a small fraction of that number, imagine how far that little dangerous information you cannot erase will go. The effects of careless sharing may not be felt immediately. Think before you click.
@amadel I'm glad that you're country is trying to introduce a cyberstalking law! Hopefully it'll pass in the congress soon. I completely agreed with your point of think before you click, and also the fact that information shared on social media and a very widespread and stays on the internet almost permanently! Thank you for pointing those out and sharing these with everyone! 
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So if I stalk someone in Facebook, am I a bad person?
@jovialScenery77 it depends on what you intend to do with the information you get, such as harrassment, theft, and other crimes.
@amadel
What if I do so to learn more about that person.
Eg. A person I like. :3
@jovialScenery77
Stalking, in the traditional sense, involves following someone in a way that causes the victim to be afraid or upset, and online stalking has been defined as the use of technology, particularly the Internet, to harass someone. If you are merely seeking information shared by the person publicly, such as their photos, name, email, and etc, and you are not "stalking" them to the point of being afraid or upset and/or harassing with they information they provided, then it is not the traditional sense of stalking.
However, the line is quite fine, and do keep in mind that it is a crime to cyberstalk someone, so we might want to keep our distance to protect ourselves also from being accused of cyberstalking.
@jovialScenery77 i believe stalking for the purposes of admiring someone is not a crime. we all do that in real life sometimes, like (secretly) observing a person we like, and etc.
i think stalking in particular becomes harmful if you obtain information that he/she has not decided to share with you or anyone. using methods like hacking, using external software to get track things like keystroke logs, private images or messages, etc., regardless of your purpose of obtaining them, makes the act itself criminal in nature.
@amadel Yes I agree also with the point of hacking and obtaining information that is not publicly shared! :D

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@amadel
I'm not a pro. :( I don't know how to hack. Even if I did I would be too lazy to do so. :)
1. Is cyberstalking a crime in your country? It is a crime it is just like being stalked by omeone offline and it is kind of like cyberbullying. Stalking became a crime in 2012 in my country and cyberstalking was added to that list of being illegal when stalking became illegal here 5 years ago.
2. Are there any relevant organisations or helpline that support cyberstalking in your country? The National Domestic Violence Hotline is trained to help those who are being harassed online through cyberstalking.
3. Have you had experiences with cyberstalking? Would you mind sharing them? Yes I was stalked on and offline for 2 years by an abusive ex it was awful and torture they made sure to let me know how worthless I was and how I was nothing without them and that no one would love me that only they did they made sure to contact all of the people I loved and tell them bad things about me to make me seem like the bad person when it was them they'd act like they did not know who I was just to try to get information from my loved ones and my friends and family would screenshot their conversation or take a quick photo of my ex and tell me that they were asking questions about me. I changed myour phone number, and social media they still figured out a way to find me it was dreadful. I blocked them they'd just make new pages. Until finally I was able to somehow get them to go away completely. I'm still on guard though because of them.
4.Are there any other tips for protecting ourselves from cyberstalking? Screenshot them every time they write you, don't respond just gather up evidence so you can present it to a police and magistrate or judge when you ask for an order of protection against them, get self-defence classes you aren't sure what they're capable of and their cyberstalking can escalate and go offline and they can possibly start stalking you in the real world. Block them and create new media accounts set them to private if you can just block them completely out of your life stay strong and remember you are not any of the things your stalker might write to you in order to get you to respond to them, they're the one who's hurting you not the other way around and they are not doing it out of love anyone who loves you wouldn't abuse you by stalking and harassing you online so don't let them make you believe it's out of love.
@astray
Thanks for sharing your experience with us, I'm sorry for what you've been through but I'm glad that the stalking has died down, and I am sure many people will be benefited from reading your experience.
Thank you also for the tip on taking screenshots and not replying! Sometimes the stalkers are trying to trick us into replying to get more information from us, so that's a really great tip!
@terrytee yes it took a judge to finally listen to me and order a protection order to get them to stay away and actually tell them if they violate it again they'd be imprisoned they wrote me for the last time in 2016 of January and I was happy because I really couldn't sleep thanks to them harassing me through text, online and off.
I stopped all communication with them in 2014 and only ever asked them to leave me alone because I knew it was them, I know how they write so I knew that it was them sending me hateful things from anonymous numbers and users.
I'm happy to put that behind me now they only made me stronger and I'm a survivor is what I've learnt from my experience. I was glad to share it was therapeutic I don't really like to talk about it so it was nice to finally talk about it. 😊
@astray
Sorry you have to go through that, it must have been devastating…
, but I'm glad you grew stronger from it, I'm also grateful that you shared it with us! Again, thank you so much 