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After breakup im lost

User Profile: understandingShip9400
understandingShip9400 August 19th, 2025

I lost the most important person to me. She left and blocked me. After nearly 4 years after all, the words of forever And always... It's so hard to cope with not even being able to have a real conversation about it... I feel she decided in secret and then dealt me the news... That's not how it's supposed to work. Even in breaking up, there should be talks especially that long together. I also got fired on the same day. I hate myself. And I feel like I deserve bad things. That it's all my fault. Not sure what i'm looking for... Probably validation at this point. Been having harmful thoughts.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 August 20th, 2025

@understandingShip9400

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You don't deserve bad things at all.

No person ghosts someone after four years 🥺

That's so heartbreaking and rude and emotionally distressing.

Even a hard conversation would have given closure instead of you filling in the blanks yourself.

I'm so sorry, it was cruel to do this after so long 🥺

You deserved better 💜💕

User Profile: RedWell
RedWell August 25th, 2025

It’s hard to understand this when the wounds are so fresh, But if she had that in her heart, Then it was you leaving her To find someone of way better character. And when do you find her You will feel so lucky that you got out while you could. A better woman is thinking about you right now, Hoping that you exist, Praying that you exist, And that you’ll have the courage To keep saying hi to New faces until you find her.