Any advice
Hello, I’m new here. I’m not sure if my question applies to this self esteem group. I am currently working on my self esteem through trying to love on me. I was wanting to ask for advice, if anyone has advice.
When I was 12 years old, this guy at the church I use to go to, had a crush on me. I didn’t remember him coming up and telling me, but my mom told me that he liked me. I didn’t get the chance to tell him that I liked him back. So, fast forward, recently, he added me on ***. I didn’t recognize him at first but when I saw pictures of his mother. Then I realized it was him. The next day, I noticed that he had unfriended me after I accepted his friend’s request. I also noticed that he had pictures of his baby mama, but his relationship status didn’t say anything.
Honestly, I feel like he played with my mind in a way by him doing this and I’m not sure what made him look at my page and add me on purpose or by mistake and then delete it. It was just weird to me.
Am I crazy for feeling some type of way because of him doing this?
@bubbleClementine2111
Welcome 🤗 💚
It was strange of him to send you a request and then unfriend when you accepted.
But leave him in the past.
Let him play his little games with someone else.
You focus on you and your own happiness 💚
Amanda84 thank you for your advice.
@bubbleClementine2111
It is not unusual for this to still be playing on your mind. Thank you for sharing. 😊
However, it was a bullet dodged for sure.
Time is rather precious, it cuts you open and then heals you just fine.🌱🌹🥀
For the sake of yourself and self esteem, relocate that energy into the fact that he was not worthy of your precious time.