Building Self-Esteem

@Lulucares

I appreciate the fact that I always show up.

I never give up.

I'm always unapologetically myself 💜💕

I have battled self esteem most of my life and recently through therapy got through it also my dad gave me the low self esteem when he told me I wouldn’t amount to a hill of beans along with other things constantly. My worth and value is in the Lord and who he sees me as.

• He sees me as his child fit for his kingdom

• He says I’m fearfully and wonderfully made

• He says I’m worthy and valuable

• He says he wants to have a deep relationship with me

• He says my identity is in him and not who I am here on Earth

• He says all the opposite things from what I believed which tells me Satan wanted me to have low self esteem and think I am a no body and no good for anything

• Well I’m here to say this! I am a mother with disabilities and I’m a good wife and housekeeper for the most part! I’m all the things I thought I wouldn’t be good at, yes I have to have help as a mom but I do most of the caring myself and those types of things. I’m not here to convert anyone unless they want to be. I’m here to tell everyone what my Lord says they are and that is the 100% truth!

• Also if you think negatively you’ll feel bad about yourself and think you’re no good if you think positive about yourself you’ll start feeling better!

  Start by saying things like “I’m not as bad as i thought i would be”

  I am a good spouse, friend, co worker, person.

  I am worthy of love and support

  I am a one of a kind creation worthy of respecting myself and not lowering my standards

  I am deserving of grace and forgiveness

  I am desirable and attractive

  I am beautiful and unique

  I am exactly where I need to be right now

  I will get through this

  I am deserving of good things

  I am Deserving of a good boy friend, friend, spouse.

  I will achieve amazing things

  I will give my self grace and not beat my self up ( for listeners when you give compassion to someone else reflect that back to you as you deserve the same compassion you give)

  I am worthy of becoming a verified active listener and helping as many peoplE as I can ( one I am saying to myself now)

  I am a great trained listener helping others through their difficulties the best I can.

  I am a great verified listener (for verified ones) helping individuals get through their difficulties

  The possibilities are endless! What are some that stick out to you here or some that you have in mind that aren’t here!?