Dreams
I'm not good at anything, not even at what I dreamed so much. I'm not special.
I dreamed to much as a child, Although I never had the support of my family, I have tried to fulfill my dreams but I am not even good at what I want. When I think that I don't do it so badly I end up realizing that I'm not and it's been so long and I haven't achieved anything.
I should give up but I don't know what I'll do, I'm not good at anything. I don’t what to do I want to feel special and good in something!
@MagicalGirlC Your feelings absolutely matter, and I'm sorry you're feeling like this. No matter what, please don't give up!! I know it can be so hard to look back and feel like you haven't accomplished what you wanted to or had the opportunity to do so. I want to remind you that you are here for a reason. You have such special God-given gifts. On top of that, you are stronger, more precious, and more loved than you could ever imagine. It's great that you have these dreams--remember, if there's a will, there's ABSOLUTELY a way!!
You're also definitely not alone. I'd like to share a few things that have helped me when I feel this way:
- Make a list of both short and long term goals/dreams, steps to reach them, and how long you'd like to dedicate to them. This helps break down your goals into more manageable steps and gives you structure.
- Take small steps every day towards self-improvement. This could be making your bed, cleaning your room, doing chores, shopping for groceries, and journaling to clear your mind. Simple things like these are important to spark motivation and build momentum.
- Try out as many different hobbies as you can in many different areas (for example: art like jewelry-making, drawing, reading, writing; fitness like different sports, calisthenics, pilates, weight-lifting; music like learning an instrument, singing, songwriting, etc.) You're bound to find something you enjoy or want to work towards. If you can, connect with people that can mentor you and help you improve!
- Find a community initiative or organization you can volunteer/contribute at, such as a soup kitchen, church, animal shelter, nursing home, etc. This has REALLY helped me gain a sense of purpose and given me a goal to work towards!
- Other tips include RESTING when you need to!! And, always be grateful for every opportunity and trust that everything WILL get better!!
It may feel hard at first, but you are absolutely strong enough to do this!!! Try to plan out your goals and take small steps (starting from basic needs like chores/habits, then meeting new people, learning and improving skills, community initiatives, etc.) Stay strong, enjoy the journey God is guiding you through, and I know you'll do great!! We're all rooting for you!! Sending you so much love, hugs, and prayers 💕
