Self-Harm Recovery Daily Check-In: Sunday, December 6th, 2020
hey there all you lovelies!! happy happy sunday!!
so to start off today's check in, I would like to thank you all! you guys left wonderful feedback for me, and i really appreciate your time! i love reading all of your responses, and answering them! As part of appreciating your feedback I am adding a couple new things to my check-ins!
number 1: I will leave a "suggestion box" at the bottom of each check in, if you guys ever thing of any suggestions for themes you'd like or something else!
number 2: i am also adding a ___ of the day!! it will relate on the topic! :D
number 3: I will be changing the colour of my __ of the day each check in, and will explain why!
soooo this is a really long paragraph and I didnt even get to the topic yet :o
For today's topic, I was thinking we could talk a little about goals!! goals can really influence the way we act, talk, and our recovery! my goal is to make people smile! its been my goal now and for the past couple years! there are big and small goals, and they all affect us equally! they help us make progress! which is super amazing!
sadly, my beautiful chibird image will not show up! sorry for the inconvience!
For today's check-in questions <3
1. How are you all doing? is there anything that you would like to share?
2. do you have any goals? if so, would you like to share one or two (or as many as youd like) with us?
3. what is one thing you are super speedy with? (ex. tech, sports, learning a language etc!!)
Quote of the day!
If you set goals and go after them with all the determination you can muster, your gifts will take you places that will amaze you
~ Les Brown
Today i chose to go with orange, it is a colour that speaks out and yells in my face saying "You got this!!!" so here I am, telling you all, you got this! make your goals, and fight to acheive them! i believe in you!
thank you all so much for checking in with us! i hope you have a lovely day!
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@enchantedlove
1. How are you all doing? is there anything that you would like to share?
Today, I am doing okay. The past days have been really dificult for me to find positivity and more. But I am getting better
2. do you have any goals? if so, would you like to share one or two (or as many as youd like) with us?
I do!! One of my goals is to practice more self care. I find I am always getting burnout, and that if I take more time for myself, I will be less burned out!! Another one is to try to focus more on the positive then the negative.
3. what is one thing you are super speedy with? (ex. tech, sports, learning a language etc!!)
I am really speedy with languages and sports
Enjoy your day!!
@BrightHeart116 hey there Emily!! i am glad your doing okay! i am so sorry they have been difficult, but its amazing you are getting better! that is an amazing goal!! i get having burnout but i think thats a great plan of yours! :D its awesome you are speedy with languages and sports! i wish i was a sports, but i do pick up languages quickly! thanks so much for checking in with us! have a lovely day!
1. How are you all doing? is there anything that you would like to share?
im doing fine :)
2. do you have any goals? if so, would you like to share one or two (or as many as youd like) with us?
pass my law studies midterm and start my juice cleanse/workouts tomorrow.
3. what is one thing you are super speedy with? (ex. tech, sports, learning a language etc!!)
solving puzzles & escape rooms
@lydiarklistens hey hey there!! im glad to hear your doing fine!! i know you got this with the law studies! youll do great! the juice cleanse and workouts sound totally awesome! it is super cool you are speedy with solving puzzles!! that is an awesome talent! thank you very much for checking in with us! have a lovely day!
@enchantedlove, hello!
1. How are you all doing? is there anything that you would like to share?
Good. I'm excited to see what ideas you will implement in your check-ins soon.
2. Do you have any goals? if so, would you like to share one or two (or as many as you'd like) with us?
Yes, I have goals. I have to finish my boring school work. I have other goals aside from that, but I would rather not share it. 
3. What is one thing you are super speedy with? (ex. tech, sports, learning a language, etc!!)
I'm speedy in finding info that is useful in my life. :)
Thanks for the check-in, and take care.
@LovelyOrangeJuice hi there!! im so glad your excited for the new changes in the check-ins! as am I! that is such an amazing goal!! :D i know it can be super tough sometimes! i get not wanted to share the other goals, thats completely alright! that sounds like such an awesome skill!! it seems very useful in day to day life, so im glad you get to enjoy it! :D of course, as always thank you so much for checking in with us!!! i hope you have a lovely day!! ( also I do want to mention, i know the ending to most of my responses are the same, but I rewrite them every time, so im not just copying and pasting haha, i just like the wording of it!)
1. How are you all doing? is there anything that you would like to share?
I'm fine. Not really.
2. do you have any goals? if so, would you like to share one or two (or as many as youd like) with us?
get a job, live, die.
3. what is one thing you are super speedy with? (ex. tech, sports, learning a language etc!!)
I'm not super speedy with anything. Some stuff I'm ok but I don't excel at anything.
@Flornhope hey there!! Im so sorry your not okay, i know it's hard to just pretend we are all the time, i hope things get better for you <3 that sounds like a pretty solid plan!! You got this! I get not excelling at things! Although you definitely excel at responding to my check ins! :D thanks so much for checking in with us today! I hope you have a lovely day!
@enchantedlove I guess I have been doing that well recently. Thank you
1. How are you doing? Is there anything you would like to share?
I'm a little confused, but overall okay, thank you for asking. I've been wondering if I don't need to flee my family home, but another part of me says that that's their gaslighting speaking. I suppose I ought to remember that my gut says I'm not safe.
2. Do you have any goals? If so, would you like to share any with us?
For now, a short-term goal I have is to pass the classes I'm taking this semester. Finals are hardcore. As for a long-term goal, that would be moving in with a trusted friend. I really don't know where I'll go from there in terms of my education and career, but at least I'll have a sanctuary to repair my mental health in.
3. What is one thing you are super speedy with?
I seem to have a talent for discovering things on accident. Take last night, for instance. I meant to make myself a nice hot chocolate to self-care, but I experimentally added a few different ingredients. I also made it too thick. The hot chocolate was transformed into chocolate pudding...and it actually was pretty delicious. So...now I know how to make my own chocolate pudding, haha.
Thank you for the check-in, as always. I appreciate it! 
@TheAutumnWitch hey hey there!! Im sorry to hear you've been feeling confused! I am glad your still alright though <3 that seems like a very tough decision for you! Im so sorry! That's an amazing goal! I totally love it! You got this love! I know the future can be uncertain and scary, but you can get through it! Ah that sounds like an awesome talent! That is so amazing!! I hope you enjoyed it! :D thanks so much for checking in with us! Have a lovely day!
@enchantedlove
1. How are you all doing? is there anything that you would like to share?
I'm alright
2. do you have any goals? if so, would you like to share one or two (or as many as youd like) with us?
3. what is one thing you are super speedy with? (ex. tech, sports, learning a language etc!!)
@enchantedlove
1. How are you all doing? is there anything that you would like to share?
I'm alright
2. do you have any goals? if so, would you like to share one or two (or as many as youd like) with us?
my goal is to tell my relatives about seeking therapy
3. what is one thing you are super speedy with? (ex. tech, sports, learning a language etc!!)
hm I'm not really sure for this
@sleepydandelionbby hi there! Im super glad to hear you are feeling alright! I know it can be hard and scary to seek help sometimes so I'm super proud of you for trying!! I know you can do it! It's alright not to know! Sometimes these things can be confusing <3 thanks so much for checking in with us! Have a lovely day!!
@enchantedlove
1. How are you all doing? is there anything that you would like to share?
I'm good! I had a really nice, long, talk with somebody I care a lot about tonight :)
2. do you have any goals? if so, would you like to share one or two (or as many as youd like) with us?
My short term goal is to get all my work done for this week so I can have a nice, relaxing weekend. My long term goal is to try and get back into a regular schedule for school, as we are going hybrid in January!
3. what is one thing you are super speedy with? (ex. tech, sports, learning a language etc!!)
Hmm I'm not sure! I used to be super speedy with reading. But I guess I'm pretty speedy as writing, espically if I'm passionate about it!
@cocoakrispies121 hey there cocoa!! I am so glad to hear you are doing well! That is awesome, chatting with those we love is really a blessing! Aww that's an amazing goal! Im sure you got this!! :D the long term goal is super awesome, it sounds amazing! Haha i get not being sure!! I was always super speedy with reading as well! That's awesome! I agree you are an amazing writer :p keep it up!! Thanks so much for checking in with us! I hope you have a lovely day!
