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Self-Harm Recovery Daily Check-In: Sunday, January 10th, 2021

User Profile: enchantedlove
enchantedlove January 11th, 2021

hey hey all you lovely human beings!! happy happy sunday!

soo first of all, i want to apologize! im so sorry for making this check in at like 11pm haha you guys totally deserve it to be earlier! anyway, im here now! today i have a storytime! :D

so i had an insane night <3 if you didn't know, i have an extreme phobia of spiders and insects and really anything non-mammal haha. so today, here i am minding my own buisness in my bed, responding to replies in my anxiety support check-in, just vibin right? well a lovely spider decided otherwise. it *jumped **on** me* smh i cannot express how loudly I screamed at that moment <3 how fun! i ran out of my bed and to my twin brother's room i say "Johann, quick, there's a creepy scary jumping spider can you help me find it" and hes like yeah fine whatever. so we spent 30 minutes taking my bed apart looking for the dang thing. we didn't find it... kinda scary haha

so that is why my check-in is a little late :p anyway! today's topic is phobias! some people experience really intense, strong phobias, and others just minor fears! either way, they can definitely impact us!

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For today's check-in questions <3

1. How are you feeling? is there anything you'd like to share with us?

2. do you have any fears or phobias? if so do they affect you?

3. what is your favorite scary thing ;o (like halloween, or horror movies, or something like that!) *if your like me and dont like scary things haha then im with ya :p*

lesson of the day <3

super scary things can happen, and can be really big obstacles, but either way it will end up alright <3

thanks so much for checking in with us!! have a lovely day!

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User Profile: Flornhope
Flornhope January 11th, 2021

1. How are you feeling? is there anything you'd like to share with us?

I'm fine

2. do you have any fears or phobias? if so do they affect you?

Yes and some times

3. what is your favorite scary thing ;o (like halloween, or horror movies, or something like that!) *if your like me and dont like scary things haha then im with ya :p*

some scary movies and plenty of normal stuff is scary to me

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User Profile: enchantedlove
enchantedlove OP January 13th, 2021

@Flornhope hey hey there! its so awesome to hear you are feeling fine!! <3 i understand! it can be really tough when our phobias have affect on our day to day lives! i agree they can totally be scary! thanks so much for sharing and for checking in! i hope you have an awesome day!

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User Profile: Flornhope
Flornhope January 13th, 2021

@enchantedlove Thanks you. I get scared but plenty of times I go on anyway

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User Profile: SnippyHam
SnippyHam January 11th, 2021

@enchantedlove, hello!

1. How are you feeling? is there anything you'd like to share with us?

Good and bad. One of my school works is a bit difficult. I can't wait to finish it. Lol

2. do you have any fears or phobias? if so do they affect you?

Cockroaches! I hate them. Instead of killing it, I usually ran away.

3. what is your favorite scary thing ;o (like halloween, or horror movies, or something like that!) *if your like me and dont like scary things haha then im with ya :p*

My favorite scary thing would be a horror-genre webtoon called Horang's nightmare. Reading the story was exciting. Anyway, I don't like scary things as well. It can give me nightmares.

Bye-bye! :)

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User Profile: enchantedlove
enchantedlove OP January 13th, 2021

@SnippyHam hey there!! oo it can be tough to have mixed emotions, althought sometimes i find it to be so refreshing!! aw im sorry that your schoolwork is difficult! you can do this!! :D oo im the same way with all bugs! those are so scaryyy haha im sorry to hear that!! it can feel almost impossible to overcome phobias :p ooo thats so cool! im glad you liked it! i agree it totally gives me nightmares too! thanks so much for checking in! have a lovely day!

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User Profile: lydiarklistens
lydiarklistens January 11th, 2021

1. How are you feeling? is there anything you'd like to share with us?

Im feeling alright

2. do you have any fears or phobias? if so do they affect you?

nope

3. what is your favorite scary thing ;o (like halloween, or horror movies, or something like that!) *if your like me and dont like scary things haha then im with ya :p*

horror movies, i LOVE them. my favorite are "orphan" (they are planning on making a prequel!!) and "truth or dare" (2018)

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User Profile: Actuallynobody017
Actuallynobody017 January 11th, 2021

@lydiarklistens

I like Orphan too, and also Lights out.

User Profile: enchantedlove
enchantedlove OP January 13th, 2021

@lydiarklistens hi there! its awesome to hear your feeling alright!! i get not having phobias! thats awesome! ooo thats so amazing!! im glad you enjoy them!! i agree they can be totally awesome! thanks so much for checking in! i hope you have an awesome day!

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User Profile: Actuallynobody017
Actuallynobody017 January 11th, 2021

1. How are you feeling? is there anything you'd like to share with us?

​​​​​​I am feeling okayish.I hope it gets better. I hope you are doing great <3

2. do you have any fears or phobias? if so do they affect you?

I am scared of snakes and I get nightmares where they are attacking me. I have researched and found out that having nightmares of snakes are not that bad. But they are scary to be honest. 😰

3. what is your favorite scary thing ;o (like halloween, or horror movies, or something like that!)

Favourite scary thing haha. My favourite scary thing would be to get close to an animal in a wildlife park. It is scary and not at all recommended.

Have a nice day 💛

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User Profile: enchantedlove
enchantedlove OP January 13th, 2021

@Actuallynobody017 hey there! im so glad your okay-ish! i understand its not ideal, but its still great!! thanks im doing well <3 aww im so sorry that your scared of them! that sounds really frightening! <3 im glad that you got some reasearch on it! i agree they can be scary! ooo thta sounds awesome! i totally get that! thanks so much for sharing! i hope you have an awesome day as well!

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User Profile: galaxyGirl299
galaxyGirl299 January 11th, 2021

1. How are you feeling? is there anything you'd like to share with us?

I'm ok I guess.

2. do you have any fears or phobias? if so do they affect you?

I am super scared of injections/needles, I can't get a shot without having a panic attack, in fact, I didn't get any injections since I was 10. One time a doctor wanted to take a blood sample and I broke down completely. Apparently, I was sobbing and screaming on the floor ( I can't really remember that event, I only recall an immense feeling of fear). So I'd say this fear affects me quite a lot. Especially now in times of covid where you should get a vaccine. I'm also afraid of spiders and most insects, other than that I often have nightmares about my house being full of insects it does not really affect me.

3. what is your favorite scary thing ;o (like halloween, or horror movies, or something like that!) *if your like me and dont like scary things haha then im with ya :p*

I like scary books more than scary movies.

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User Profile: enchantedlove
enchantedlove OP January 13th, 2021

@galaxyGirl299 hey hey there! im glad to hear your feeling alright! im so sorry that is a phobia for you!! that sounds really frustrating and hard!! im so sorry you deal with all that! <3 aw i understand i agree! it can be a really hard struggle to go through!! i am afraid of insects and spiders so much as well <3 im glad that one doesn't affect you as much so! its cool you like scary books over movies! i agree they are both super compelling! thanks so much for sharing!! i hope one day you are able to overcome your fears! you got this! have a lovely day!

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User Profile: DinaElwy
DinaElwy January 11th, 2021

1. How are you feeling? is there anything you'd like to share with us?

I feel so bad and awful because last Wednesday I have been fired in asurprising and insulting way, and it still hard to me to accept that I am jobless.

2. do you have any fears or phobias? if so do they affect you?

I have fears of objections and being refused, and also I am afraid of darkness.

3. what is your favorite scary thing ;o (like halloween, or horror movies, or something like that!) *if your like me and dont like scary things haha then im with ya :p*

I am just not interesting in horror stuffs.

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User Profile: enchantedlove
enchantedlove OP January 13th, 2021

@DinaElwy hey there! awww i remember from the a.s. check-in! im so sorry that happened! im here for you <3 i understand it can be hard to accept! you can do this!! aw i understand! that can be a totally scary fear! you can make it through this, i just know it! <3 im not too intrested in scary things so i can totally understand that! thanks so much for sharing!! i hope you have a lovely day, and remember, employed or not, your awesome just as you are!

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