Self-Harm Recovery Daily Check-in: Friday, August 28, 2020

Check-In Questions
1) How are you feeling?
2) What is going well for you?
3) What is not going well for you?
4) If you could live in any country, which country would you pick?
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@SnailPurple
1) How are you feeling?
I'm ok, feeling a bit heavy hearted for unclear reasons
2) What is going well for you?
I avoided heavy rain and a thunder storm today 😄
I got to pay some baby rabbit at the petting zoo
3) What is not going well for you?
My aunt got fired last Monday, causing some uncertainty in our household
4) If you could live in any country, which country would you pick?
Not sure, I'm pretty happy where I am, in the Netherlands. But if I'd have to say something, I think a Scandinavian country like Norway or Finland, cause it seems relaxing and calming there
1) How are you feeling?
low - and lethargic and bored and discontent
2) What is going well for you?
i said no to a friend that i was worried about saying no toand it turned out semi okay - i think
3) What is not going well for you?
i feel like i am failing to thrive in my life. bc covid19 i dont really go anywhere. i do not have any friends that live near me. i live with an elderly aunt so thats not much fun at home and im always home. i am no joy in my day. i kinda just want to sleep my days away...but the i end up with this messed up sleep schedule.
4) If you could live in any country, which country would you pick?
anywhere but USA right now
Hello @blissedNblessed
It sounds like you aren't doing well right now, I hope you feel better soon <3 It also sounds like COVID-19 is really affecting you right now, if you need extra support feel free to reach out to the COVID-19 Support forum <3 I hope you can find some joy in your day soon! I'm proud of you for saying no! it can be hard to reject/refuse something, so I'm proud of you for taking this step <3
@SnailPurple
thaks, was hard to say no, but im glad i did.
ohh, i didnt know there was a covid19 support forum.
thanks for telling me.
im off to go find it.
At the moment I'm feeling a bit anxious. It's like a clenching writhing thing in my stomach, but u don't know why. Other than that I'm good.
What is going well for me? Quite a few things now that I think about it! I've learned to skateboard and I love it, my best friend was completely accepting of my sexuality and I asked the girl I like out on a date and she said she'd love to. At least I hope she knows it's a date, I heavily emphasised going out.
What is not going well? My parents are fighting, my dad isn't speaking to me but he's starting to so now I'm expected to just forgive his non existent apology and move on as always but I don't want to. I don't think the girl I like will like me once she finds out how messed up I am.
I would pick somewhere in Europe maybe. Oo France, cause I love my city over there, where my grandparents live. It's beautiful there.
Alright, hope all is well whoever reads this! Take care 😊
Hello @memelord500
I'm sorry you are feeling anxious <3 I hope you feel better soon. It sounds like you have a lot going with on your family right now. I'm sorry <3 7 Cups has a free guide on working through family stress. Would you like me to send it to you? maybe she won't like you anymore, but maybe she still will. I hope everything works out for you :) Congrats on learning how to skate! I've been thinking about learning, is it hard? I'm glad your best friend accepted you <3 Good lick with your date! France is a beautiful country :D
Thank you for checking in, stay safe!
@SnailPurple
Thanks! That guide might actually be a bit helpful, if you don't mind sending it. Skating is actually not too hard once you get the hang of it! We kinda used wikihow, I know, crazy right? And we're able to skate now! I mean, not going into the X Games any time soon lol but we're not bad haha.
@memelord500
Here s the guide: https://www.7cups.com/family-stress/
I think it is really cool you used WikiHow :D
@SnailPurple thank you very much 😊