Self Harm Recovery Daily Check-in : Tuesday, March 9th, 2021
Hello there beautiful beings !! <3
I'm back to doing the Tuesday check ins, so happy Tuesday ! I hope you're all doing well and for anyone struggling, hang in there <3 For those that I've already met, nice to see you again and for those who I don't know yet, nice to meet you :)
For today I wanted to share a little quote : I'm a child of the moon, being raised by the sun, in a world walked by stars and a sky drawn with flowers. - Zara Ventris
Check in questions :
1) How are you doing today ? Is there anything that you'd like to share ?
2) What would you choose between the moon, the sun, the world, the stars, the sky or flowers to represent yourself ?
3) Which of the elements above (moon, sun, world, stars, sky, flowers) would you like to see more of in your everyday life ?
Song recommendation of the day : I wish I was the moon by Ewan J Philips
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1) How are you doing today ? Is there anything that you'd like to share ?
today has been good, i had a pretty calm morning and i'm just going to spend my day doing schoolwork and cleaning.
2) What would you choose between the moon, the sun, the world, the stars, the sky or flowers to represent yourself ?
the stars, there are many parts of me as we are a system.. so stars represents us well.
3) Which of the elements above (moon, sun, world, stars, sky, flowers) would you like to see more of in your everyday life ?
i would want to see more moon, the moon reminds me of the night and the night is peaceful to me because i am usually the only one awake.
thank you for this check-in ♡
@TheMeadowSystem
Hi there ! :)
It's nice to hear that you're having a good day. A calm morning sounds like a great way to start off the day. Good luck with the schoolwork and cleaning !
Oh I love the reason why you chose stars. In a way I guess you could be multiple constellations coming together.
Hum there is something very peaceful about night time when everyone is asleep and everything just seems to settle. Would you say that you're more of a night owl then ?
Thanks for checking in, take care <3
@Slizzy564 yes definitely more of a night owl, although really early morning are nice too ☀️
Edited by Tazzie for safety purposes but I'm too scared. I'm really messed up these days. I just want to (Edited for language and triggers)
@tluper6491
Hi there !
I'm sorry to hear that you're having a hard time. You seem to be suffering from this situation.
I have to flag your post as it can be triggering for other members. Regarding the content of your post, I would recommend reaching out for medical assistance as 7cups isn't equipped for crisis situations. You can find a link to ressources here.
I wish you all the best, take care <3
1) How are you doing today ? Is there anything that you'd like to share ?
I am so tired and depressed. I feel bad and injustice because I can't forget the way I have been fired since 6/1/2021 in a sudden and an insulting way. I can't forget and move forward in my life. I know that nothing in life would wait for me but I can't help myself.
2) What would you choose between the moon, the sun, the world, the stars, the sky or flowers to represent yourself ?
I don't know what is representing me, but I prefer the moon because it looks so beautiful and lighted at night although it's just mere rocks
3) Which of the elements above (moon, sun, world, stars, sky, flowers) would you like to see more of in your everyday life?
Moon and flowers.
@DinaElwy
Hi !
I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling down today. Losing your job that way sounds harsh and unexpected. I understand that it's a sudden change in your life and can be hard to get over. As much as I hope that you push through this, remember that it's okay to feel down for some time. We can't always be upbeat and positive. Hang in there !
I have to agree, the moon is pretty beautiful right ? Just goes to show that even rocks can be cool and fascinating ;)
Moon and flowers sound like a good combo to me ! Any flowers that you like ?
Thanks for checking in, take care <3
@Slizzy564
Thank you for understanding and supporting me. I wish I can plant jasmine, lavender, and basil in my balcony.
@DinaElwy
That's what we're here for :) Oh those would smell soooo nice too :)
@Slizzy564
Hello!
1) How are you doing today ? Is there anything that you'd like to share?
I think I'm in somewhat of what I call a "shutdown" with my emotions; by that, I mean that I can't feel much, if at all anything. I realize that it's a self-defense mechanism for me whenever I encounter something difficult. Because of this, I'm a little hesitant to approach one of my support group members who consistently worries about my status. I know that he'll immediately want to go into "problem-solving mode", and while I know he means well with it, I don't want to be "fixed" by him or anyone right now. I know that I'll be okay after the shutdown passes over; I just need to sit with it for now.
2) What would you choose between the moon, the sun, the world, the stars, the sky or flowers to represent yourself?
Hehe, well, I'd choose the sky because a few years ago, one of my friends actually told me that I was our overall friend group's "center of the universe". The fact is, as there's no official center of the universe, I think that the sky is the best choice for this since it is all-encompassing.
3) Which of the elements above (moon, sun, world, stars, sky, flowers) would you like to see more of in your everyday life?
All of them! They're all beautiful and shine in their own way. (^_^)
Thanks for the check-in! I appreciate you.
@TheAutumnWitch
Hey !
I'm sorry to hear about the shutdown, those can be hard times to go through especially when you're feeling numb. Though you do seem to be pretty aware of your emotions as you've identified this a defense mechanism. Is there something difficult going on that you would like to talk about ? As for approaching your support members, it's fine to reach out for help when you feel like it. Maybe sitting with your emotions is what's best for you today and reaching out will be better another day. Everything in it's due time, right ?
That's very well thought of ! I like the idea of there not being one center of the universe pulling us in but something surrounding us, bringing us together. Nice imagery there !
Haha very true !! Why choose when you can have all of them :)
Thanks for checking in, take care <3
@Slizzy564
Hello again!
I appreciate your sympathy. There is, however, no need to worry about me; I've gotten used to this happening, and as you stated, it is ultimately a well-intentioned defense mechanism. Admittedly, there is something weighing on my mind, but I'd like to see if I can resolve it myself, or if it's even actually worth resolving in the first place, if that makes sense. I've decided to take today (and perhaps tomorrow) off from my support group; I think I just need a little bit of time alone with my thoughts. It's been a while since I was the only company I had.
Thank you! (^_^) Togetherness does seem to be the centering factor as opposed to having an actual designated location, haha.
Exactly. :P
Thank you for replying to me, and I hope you have a lovely day. 
@TheAutumnWitch
As long as you do what you think is the most beneficial for you, then I think it's the best way to go. You seem to know yourself well so if you think that some alone time is needed then take as much as you want/need. I'm sure your support group will still be there when you get back. And yes trying to determine if a problem needs a solution does make sense. Sometimes a bit of time can help you with looking at this from a different perspective that can help you. Good luck !
I hope you have a great day too :)
@Slizzy564, Hi! Welcome back.
1) How are you doing today ? Is there anything that you'd like to share ?
Good, one schoolwork to go, and I'm done. Yahoos.
2) What would you choose between the moon, the sun, the world, the stars, the sky or flowers to represent yourself ?
A half moon. There are plenty of times where I hide a part of me to other people. But, I won't hesitate to the show the rest of that part if there is trust and harmony in the relationship. :)
3) Which of the elements above (moon, sun, world, stars, sky, flowers) would you like to see more of in your everyday life ?
The world! There are plenty to discover in Earth. Bahaha. I would love to travel alone someday.
Have a nice day!
@SnippyHam
Hi there ! Thanks :)
Congrats on getting the schoolwork done ! It's nice to wrap things up and call it a day :)
That's an interesting way of putting it, I guess we all have a part of us that we prefer to keep hidden. It's nice to hear that trust and harmony help you open up.
Yes ! That's quite true ! So much to discover and so little time to do so ! I hope you get to travel soon :) Where would you like to go to ?
Thanks for checking in, I hope you have a nice day too, take care <3
@Slizzy564
@Slizzy564
@Slizzy564
Ahh. My hands are quite slippery. Anyway, I would love to travel places that I haven't seen in the country I live in, the Philippines. Or anywhere with snow.
Thanks for your reply. :)
@SnippyHam
No worries about the hands !
It's nice to discover our own country, there's som uch to see and most of the time it's not that far away ! I hope that you get to travel soon and make the most of some snow :)