Figured it out #2
My mother is really victimizing herself.
I said ,,ok, do it, but dont say that I dont do anything in this house.." I said it so calmly and she stormed out and started crying..
She later said that she didnt do anything wrong and my father finally stood "against" her with me and stood up with me.
She was sooo mad, and shes the one who says that im always overreacting and that "this generation" has so much mental issues and crap like this.
Im glad that I finally found out that shes the "problem".
But I love her and I always will.
@elka1ska
Seems like she has a neurosis, but knowing it gives you nearly nothing. The point is what you have to do with this fact, to be more specific: what you have to do to youself to cope with it.
@RedOceanSun
And we all love our parents even if we say it just to look moral to society. Often we want to say we hate our parents, but we can't because we don't want to look ungrateful and malicious.
Thatkind of love is given us by nature and we have to learn how to deal with it. It's a goal.
@RedOceanSun
Thank you againg for helping me ð«¶ð«¶
It means a lot to me.
@elka1ska
You are welcome :)
