Figured it out

I think I've figured out what my trigger is. It's my mother. She’s constantly criticizing me, twisting everything I say, and turning it against me. I’ll say something totally “depressing”—like today I said, “Why should I do that when you’re going to do it anyway…”—because she does everything for me, and then she lashes out at me, saying I’m good for nothing. She’s always complaining that she does everything, but when I say I’ll do something and don’t do it within 5 seconds, she gets *** off, yells at me, and goes to do it herself.