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What should I do

User Profile: ar1ee
ar1ee May 29th

I’ve been living with my boyfriend for 5 years now and He knows that I always struggled with my mental health. The first year of us living together I told him about a relapse I had with harming myself.He made me promise to not do it again but 5 years later and I’ve broken that promise several times I just haven't told him and he hasn't noticed it. Would it be to late to talk to him about it ? And how would i go about it

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User Profile: pinkiepie1724
pinkiepie1724 May 29th

Hey, you are so strong. I don't know when your most recent relapse was, but that's irrelevant. I don't think it's too late. I can understand the shame of having to tell a loved one you broke that promise all too well. But if you bring it up gently, and remind him you didn't keep it from him with malicious intent, I have faith it will go well. Hugs, and recovery is not linear 🌸