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Who here self harms

User Profile: funnyMaple2632
funnyMaple2632 March 5th, 2015

I wonder if some one who does will under stand why I do it

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User Profile: DKT26
DKT26 February 5th, 2016

I do. I cut because it substitutes the pain in my life for a lesser pain in my arm, it distracts me from my real problems even if it's for a little bit. That's what makes cutting so addicting, because it only solves my problems for a little bit, so then I do it again to get that feeling. I don't know about others but that's my reason. I know it's unhealthy and I'm trying to stop but I still need to tell someone what's going on.

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User Profile: SEVerity14
SEVerity14 February 5th, 2016

@DKT26 thats must be hard for you. Can you tell me more about it?

User Profile: Emku4795
Emku4795 February 5th, 2016

@DKT26 i have the same problem in that it's addicting and it's hard to stop doing it. There's a lot of things you can do instead when you have that urge i'm sure you can even just look up online. They sound weird but for me an ice cube on the wrist works because you still feel like pain but without doing any damage.

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User Profile: esphyr
esphyr March 25th, 2016

@Emku4795

i have the same problem, that it is addicting. i never thought of ice cubes, that may help a lot and maybe be a step to help me stop

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March 21st, 2016

@DKT26 It is definitely addictive. You and I share that it is a form of distraction and control.

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User Profile: alexaners7734
alexaners7734 March 18th, 2016

i used 2 do it so that instead of lashing out at others, i lash out on myself.

so far i have stopped...that only happened b\c last time i did it was rite b4 my parents kicked me out & they were about the only reason cut...

so, as of 2day, im 5.5 months clean from cutting

March 18th, 2016

Used to bite myself constantly when I was a kid, I always had bruises on my arms. Switched to punching myself all the time when I got braces. I started cutting when I was 13. I've slowed down on all my self harm but in the past month I've temporarily deafened myself after hitting my head so much one night. And I haven't cut since December which is good. Getting better, slowly.

User Profile: sannesfight
sannesfight March 22nd, 2016

I do...

March 22nd, 2016

I self harm occasionally n I keep telling myself that it'll be my last time but it's not. My brother saw my arm n now he'll mock me for it all the time...

User Profile: TheAwesomeHunterHuntress
TheAwesomeHunterHuntress March 23rd, 2016

I used to cut. I am 1 1/2 weeks clean, and I consider this a major improvement. I would cut to have control, to feel the pain, I was entranced by the blood. When I cut I felt like I had control, like I could stop at any moment, though I knew I couldn't. The pain was a great distraction, and also a release. I felt like I was letting go of everything I felt. The sight of the blood enchanted me, made me want to bleed more. Overall, it was an addiction, until one of my idiotic, precious friends cut themself to make me stop. I haven't cut since, I can't bear to see my amazing, sweet friends hurt themselves because of me.

User Profile: esphyr
esphyr March 24th, 2016

used to, almost 2 months clean now

User Profile: Jake683
Jake683 March 25th, 2016

Cutting Is Like Being High, For That Little Bit Of Time You Feel Fine But After You Are Reminded What You Are Going Trough, Personaly I am a cutter, I've experienced the feeling and I've relapsed many times, Not Proud Of It But It Happens To The Best Of Us, I guess what I'm saying is the reason that most of us have turned to Cutting Is That Feeling Of Being Fine, For The Moment, But Please Try To Stop It Has Ruined My Self Image, You May Say Your Trying To Keep It Hidden But You Will Move And People Will See And Treat You Diffrently For It, So, Thanks For Reading, if you want to hear more of my story or have any questions feel free to Dm me

User Profile: straightforwardSpring3116
straightforwardSpring3116 March 25th, 2016

Cutting used to give me relief. no matter how deep i cut, i don't feel anything. i don't know what to do.

User Profile: chlorum
chlorum March 31st, 2016

~ in 2009 i cut myself really bad and still have an ugly scar on my wrist. since then i cut myself occasionally. usually it's thighs. i can't stop doing that. it makes me feel better and comfort..

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User Profile: wishfulRose80
wishfulRose80 June 1st, 2020

https://youtu.be/-S401tZgNNo

Please watch this if you feel completely hopeless, lonely, and depressed! Give it a try. Theres nothing to lose. Stay safe and take care! You are not alone.

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