I didn’t think it was a problem…..
I never thought I had a problem - or in general I didn’t think it was a problem. Like everyone I know drinks, that’s part of being young right? But then it started to get more and more and then there were days missing because I was so drunk but at least everything felt okay for a bit. But I’m starting to realise that was part of the problem, I didn’t see it as a hinderance when it was a huge one. I dunno it’s weird because I’m so young but I know have to be sober but that just makes it harder because everyone’s favourite comment is “your too young to even have a problem” and I don’t know how I’m meant to combat that like maybe they’re right?
@Mads5876
I'm really sorry to hear that anybody is saying "You're too young to have a problem". People can have problems regardless of how old they are! If you're looking at what's happening and it feels like it's a problem, then you can trust your own perceptions.
If it's helpful, here are a couple links I found that list some different factors that might indicate that alcohol is a problem.
https://www.alcohol.org/faq/drinking-problem-signs/
https://www.aafp.org/afp/1999/0115/p372.html
@Mads5876 Magic is right, no one is too young to have a problem and it's definitely normal to have one. Everyone has problems and no one should invalidate yours <3 Don't listen to those people, listen to yourself. If you think you have a problem and are ready to address it, we're all here for you. It'll take time and a lot of effort but I promise you that it'll be worth it in the end. Alcoholism affects people of all ages and quitting is hard: that's a fact. But every day, people are actively taking the initiative to quit drinking and are succeeding too. I believe you can do this and I'll be rooting for you - my PMs are open if you ever want to chat! ❤️
Sorry people have been invalidating to you. It’s a problem if you feel like it’s interfering with your life. For what it’s worth, I know several people who say they started drinking like an alcoholic in their pre-teens. One guy said he started at 9! Your circle should be thrilled you’re trying to fix things so young instead of letting it fester for decades!