Relationship, possible personality disorder
Hi, I feel like I married a person I don’t know. He lies constantly to a point I feel like what’s the point in asking and I can’t talk to him because he gets angry and mean. I feel stuck, I guess I’m trying to figure out which one of us if either has a personality disorder. I can’t keep this up. It feels so hopeless.
@samms I am sorry your relationship is stressful. Mental health issues are difficult to diagnose, so maybe just getting help for yourself is a good place to start. That way you may be able to see more clearly what are the reasons you are in this relationship and if those reasons are building self worth and helping you self care. It is difficult to have the full responsibility to make a relationship work. A professional counselor can give a more objective perspective.
You also may find some of the self help guides helpful. https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php
Hello, I was talking to a guy for 6 months then found out he's married. He lied to me and to her. I don't wanna put thoughts in your head but a person will only stay distant and inattentive when they put this energy somewhere else. Know where it's going for example he might be starting a new job or new hobby and try to be involved so u can have something in common but without pressuring him. Men always give 100% too, but u gotta know where it's going if it's not in the house.