My life problem rn
Evan- fiancee
Katelyn- sister
Mom- biological mother
Dad- step dad me and him own the car together
Everything going wrong in my life rn,
Unfortunately I made a decision to let evan drive my car when mom had specifically told me due to the insurance and him not being able to drive the car because he is an uninsured driver instead of telling him I decided I would just continue to let him drive even tho mom said we could lose everything if he crashes and we get sued I didn't have the courage to tell him and I felt bad that every time he wanted to drive I would have to say no I just didn't, rob saw the both of us on our way to school and saw evan in the driver's seat rob called mom really mad and mom texted me asking if he was and I lied saying that we swapped driving at like peaceful because I felt sick when I just let him drive because he wanted to. Mom caught me lying and got very upset. The rest of the day I was just wondering what was going to happen when we arrived hm emom asked for the keys I immediately just thought they where taking the car for a day but mom said I can't drive anymore at all and took the keys and her and rob might end up selling the car and dropping me off the insurance completly so if i get a new car i have to get insurance and everything myself when I heard mom say sell I immediately teared up, I don't want to lose the car it's important to me and I hate having the feeling of being trapped and not being able to leave somewhere when I want, I now will probably not be getting the car back and it makes me cry every morning because I really hate the feeling or thought of them selling it and me not being able to drive, evan is upset with me because I can't take him to work or do anything with the car anymore and he has to find rides from other people. Katelyn left our moms and went to dad's because she was so upset we had to get up at 6am and ride the bus and everyone is just upset with me mom, dad, Katelyn, and Evan. I just feel like I want to go back in time and not let evan drive so I was never in this predicament, what do you think my punishment should be, should they give the car back, sell it and take me of the insurance, or earn the car back or any other punishments or anything you can think of.
@aquaTriangle3782 I am sorry you are in this predicament. When I let my emotions rule rather than reason then I often get in trouble.
Evan sounds like they are very impulsive to continually ask you to drive when they were not covered by insurance. They are very much to blame for nagging you. If this is what they are like, then you really may have problems down the road with them always wanting to follow impulses. I would take a look at that carefully.
Hope things work out for you.
