Overthinking
So I have a situationship with a guy and he’s the nicest person I have ever met. So we already told eachother we love eachother and he treats me like a queen but we never went official but this week he hasn’t been texting a lot and stuff cuz let me explain: He always spammed my phone with reels, always texted me, and right now he doesen’t send me anything, he still texts like usual like his energy but just not first, at least he texts good morning first but just Idk it for me stressed like if he doesent like me that much anymore and just got me overthinking I know it may sound stupid but just I don’t know :(
@ddddia
I think it's normal to wonder when someone you're close to all over sudden changes their behavior. There might be many reasons like being very busy but sometimes also not feeling well or other things. Do you think you could just give him a call to hear how his voice sounds and what he says?
@ddddia Communication is vital, asking him straight up cuts out the stress and the second guessing for you. We all communicate differently and it's about navigating a way that suits both. I really hope you get the answers that you need 💜🥰
@ddddia
it’s ok to feel the way you feel. it’s not stupid. repeating those affirmations can help too, if it’s comfortable for you. a strong relationship is built on trust and communication, it’s been repeated so much because it’s true. there’s no shame in communicating your needs. here’s a suggestion: start by saying how much you appreciate him in your life. then you could express your feelings! i hope you too can thrive together<3
