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User Profile: sympatheticTangerine4943
sympatheticTangerine4943 October 25th, 2023

Hello. I have a lot of trust issues with my boyfriend, even though he never did anything wrong or something which made me lose trust in him. But I have a lot of difficulty in trusting him and I am always worried what if he is talking to some of his female friend when he is not talking to me or ignoring me while doing so. Please help and advice how I can develop trust. Because this has started creating problems between us. He is bothered by my this doubtful behaviour 

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings October 25th, 2023

@sympatheticTangerine4943 I am sorry you feel doubtful that you have an exclusive relationship. Many times couples do not agree on this issue. It is not easy but I have tried putting all my trust in one person and they did not live up to that level of trust. I think we need a plan B which is based on our own self and the kind of person we are. It is dangerously disappointing when I put all my trust in one person and they do not have the same level of commitment.

I know of no way to change other people so the only thing I can change is my expectations and my reactions to what others say and do. I hope you find a way to establish a steady relationship with yourself and find ways to fulfill your own goals and dreams.