idk anymore.
hello!
the reason I created this is I just don’t feel like I’m worth anything anymore. I am physically and mentally tired. School drains me. My cousin who bullies me is coming over for thanksgiving and I’m scared. I don’t know what to do. My mom always sides with her because she’s “the perfect child”. My mom ignores every time I tell her about how she hurts me. When I was 5, (she is a year older than me, so she was 6) she pushed me in the pool even though I didn’t know how to swim. I was in there for 15 minutes before my mom saw. My mom told me that it must’ve been an accident and made me give her my favorite toy because I “caused her so much trouble”. I’m scared of my cousin now. What should I tell my mom?
@dawncares Hello! Your feelings are so valid. If you need someone to talk to I am here for you, just send me a chat! :)
thank you so much!
@dawncares huuggggs you tightly ❤
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@dawncares I am sorry your mom does not believe you. Being bullied is painful but having your mother not empathize makes it worse.
Have you talked to another relative who at least hears your side of the story? Peronally, I would not tell your mother anything if she continues to be a supporter of your bullying relative. I might just try and avoid them as much as possible. At least do not keep worrying about it from now until then. Worrying only makes the pain bigger.
I am so glad you joined the 7 Cups community. Hope you get the support you are looking for.
its always better to talk with you mom on actually whats going on but incase she is not bothered about her own child. Try capturing a situation where she bullies you so there is evident and she can start believing her own blood.
@dawncares Hello! I'm so sorry that your mom doesn't believe you. Being bullied is such a hard thing to go through and no one deserve to feel this way. Have you tried maybe talking to another family member that you are close to/trust to express how you feel? Your feelings are so valid. If you ever need someone to talk to I am here for you. Feel free to send me a chat anytime.
@dawncares
Sending hugs your way if okies 🥺🫂💜 I am so sorry you had to go through that 😞 your feelings are so so valid and I hope you can get the support you deserve here 💜
