I blocked my best friend update
Hi everyone:
As some of you know, I blocked my best friend right? Here is an update.
Not only does she have no concept for my boundaries but she has also shown me that she is a fake friend.
While I was getting ready to head out yesterday, I had been texting another friend. During our conversation, I found out that she had broken confidence with me by sharing some texts that were meant for she and I with one of her ex boyfriend. Yet, here she we both discussed that we were done with him because he is also deceptive and toxic.
When I got the news yesterday, I felt very hurt and betrayed. While I tried to go out yesterday and take my mind off what they did, I ended up crying at the restaurants and while I was at the movies.
@Summershy 🙁 I'm sorry sweetie you don't seem to have much luck with people😥 it's hearbreaking indeed when trust is broken, bless you 🙁 gives you a giant tiny hug 💗 please remember there are more good people out there than bad. You deserve to have friends that are loyal and worthy of your friendship, you will find some don't give up 💖
@Tinywhisper11
Thanks for for your support because I feel very hurt. Even though I tried to go and do some fun things on Sunday, I fought back tears at the restaurant. I also cried off and on during a movie in a theater and then during the credits.
In the meantime, she has not only shown me that she's fake but also very entitled.
@Summershy I'm so sorry sweetie 🙁 hugs you tightly 💖
@Summershy I'm sorry your trust was betrayed, sending you hugs and hoping you see your worth and surround yourself with people who see it too 💜🥰
@Amanda84
Thanks for your support because she is continuing to show me who she really is. Even though I didn't mention any her name in any of videos in my social media accounts, I have been talking about the bad behavior and why I am not willing to put up with her behavior.
She created another account and threatened to take legal action against me. However, I pushed back by firmly setting boundaries. I said
"I am sorry you feel that way but you don't get to treat me anyway you see fit. I also feel like you sent our text messages to other people and that's grounds for betrayal.
@Amanda84
Hi Amanda:
I found out why she did it. She got mad at me for blocking her and because I posted to my social media account about her.
She and her mom wrote me two letters which I got on Friday. They are upset with me for blocking her and felt like dumped her when she needed a friend the most. While I feel terrible about that, I was very concerned about the red flag part.
@Summershy I see why this would stress you and I know it's hard because she needed a friend, she should have communicated that better to you rather than causing tension 🥰💜
The problem is that I was being a pushover and did not really set boundaries
@SummershyHey Summershy,
I'm really sorry you're going through this. It takes a lot of courage to set boundaries, especially when it involves someone you cared so deeply about. What your friend did—breaking your trust and sharing personal messages—is not okay, and your feelings of hurt and betrayal are completely valid.
Sometimes we don’t see a person’s true nature until we’re placed in situations like this. It’s painful, but also revealing. You deserve friendships that are rooted in respect, honesty, and loyalty. I hope you continue to surround yourself with people who truly value you.
Take your time to heal. It’s okay to cry—it means you cared. Just remember, this pain won’t last forever, and stronger, more genuine connections will come your way. Sending you strength and support 💙
@charmingWords1065
I feel very shocked and upset and that she would have the guts to pull something like that. Still, she is not sorry at all. Rather, I feel like she is more concerned with I said about her on social media while not using her name. Rather, I talked about the red flags and other toxic behaviors. In the meantime, she created another account just so that she could follow my content and attack me.
At that point, I set some firm boundaries with her before calling her out about
1. Breaking her promise to me about not contacting another toxic former friend of ours who she used to date
2. Sharing private texts to him