Am I over reacting?
When I was away with friends on holidays I was brought back to one of my friends rooms I told him I didn't want to have sex. We were drinking and I was drunk and sitting in the bed he tried to kiss me and I turned away, eventually we ended up kissing, the situation got more out of control as he tried to take my trousers off, he reached down there to try put his fingers in and I grabbed him by the wrist and told him stop, he didn't stop and it ended up happening, when I made it clear again that I didn't want to have sex he called a taxi for me to go back to my apartment, I didn't tell anyone what happened only that we had a kiss, on the last night of holidays he grabbed me down there and asked me to go back to his room I said no and he started to verbally abuse me and tell me that he hates me and call me names, I feel really uncomfortable around him now , I don't know weather or not I'm over reacting about the whole situation and I don't really know how serious it is, i can't stop thinking about it and it's distracting me from everyday life it's been 3 months since and I think about it every day, am I over reacting?
@littleGrapefruit23
I'm sorry you had to go through something like that I've been down that road but with an ex of mine and don't think your over reacting you at not he sexually assaulted you touched you without consent you said no pushed him away and he kept doing it that's an offence and against the law it was not okay for him to do that to you at you it be different if you said yes but you made it lound n clear for him no no no when someone says NO they have to stop and don't do it but if they keep going n ignore you that's wrong you can have him charged for that if you dropped him in sooner
@BrightRedFlower2322
hey thanks for the reply iv been really afraid that iv been over thinking and your reply really helped put things into perspective, I'm sorry you had to go through this too x
@littleGrapefruit23
Your welcome I'm glad I could be of some help my situation was a bit violent but i had some sort of sexual assault "R" section rated so I know what your going through hope all goes well for you in the future have you tried talking to family or even a professional about this and how your feeling . I'm in another relationship and its verbal abusive mentally so can't win lol
