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Traumatic Experiences Community Daily Check-in: Saturday, 11th of May, 2019

User Profile: redmark
redmark May 11th, 2019

Happy Saturday! I am really glad to hear from you once again. heart

How are you feeling today? :)

How has this week been for you? Do you have anything you would like to share about it? :)

I know that some days can be very hard but I want you to know that no matter what I am just so very proud of you for being the strong, brave, and amazing individual you are. :)


I just find this picture inspiring and you definitely deserve a shout out as well! :)

You might have been through a lot but you are still here with us to this day and that is just such an amazing thing of you and I want you to know that you and your feelings are always important and valid.

You are not alone in this. You deserve to be heard, to be supported, to be cared for, to be loved. You are a beautiful person and I truly mean that I just enjoy spending time here with you. heart

I understand that it can be hard to believe and it is okay if you may not feel like this right now but, no matter what, we are here for you and we are here to remind you of this anytime and support you as best as we can :)

I am just curious, what is your most recent achievement? Any little thing counts. :)

Of course, as always, all of the questions are optional and there is no pressure to answer any of them. If you would just like to say hi or just sit around with us for a while we would be really glad to have you here with us as well. :)

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@redmark

I read somwhere we're all bit perfectionist and manipulaters

and that became my excuse

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User Profile: redmark
redmark OP May 11th, 2019

Hey there @conscientiousPineapple1782 *offering safe hugs*

We are really glad to have you here with us! heart

Hmm...there is something in that. I mean, for some reasong we all try to show ourselves strong and perfect even though non of us is. It is kind of an interesting thing how we all hide things like this and we all know that everyone around us hides them but never really talk about them. It sure could be an interesting discussion topic. :)

I mean, I suppose this is kind of what the concept of socha in the dictionary of obscure sorrows is trying to explore.

Either way, thank you very much for sharing with us, it sure is a really intersting thing :)

Stay awesome! heart

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User Profile: RedHawk6547
RedHawk6547 May 11th, 2019

@redmark

Hi. I'm not sure how to describe what I'm feeling. My daughter will be with her dad tomorrow. I had plans to talk with a long distance friend. She is having company coming over tomorrow instead. Now I'll be all alone on Mother's Day. My parent's will be celebrating with my aunt and uncle and I wasn't invited. It wouldn't have mattered since I thought I had plans. I tend to isolate and I was looking forward to talking with her. I just feel unwanted right now. Thanks for listening.

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User Profile: crimsonLime6525
crimsonLime6525 May 11th, 2019

@RedHawk6547 leaving you a hug if that

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RedHawk6547 May 11th, 2019

@crimsonLime6525

Thank you. How are you doing today?

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crimsonLime6525 May 11th, 2019

@RedHawk6547 in quite a dark place so just reading posts for now

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User Profile: RedHawk6547
RedHawk6547 May 12th, 2019

@crimsonLime6525

Would it be ok if I sat with you?

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User Profile: crimsonLime6525
crimsonLime6525 May 12th, 2019

@RedHawk6547 I would like that

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User Profile: redmark
redmark OP May 11th, 2019

Hey there @RedHawk6547 *offering safe hugs*

It is always really nice to hear from you around here! heart

You know, we really are glad to have you here with us. I know it can be hard tho. I mean, I know, I have a...distant relationship with my mother. Although, I know it is different, but I have felt like that before but, the truth is, that you are important and you do matter. I can offer to you a hug and all the support I might be able to give - you are not alone in this here and as hard as this day and weekend may be we can get through this together. I believe in it and I do believe in you. :)

Stay strong and awesome! heart

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I know it's hard but don't harm yourself and please contact someone if you ever feel this way because I lost friends do to suicide and I have nightmares about it.. and just get help if this ever comes in mind because bullying and suicide is not a game it can effect us listeners and family and friends and try to keep your head up. If anything comes in mind write how you feel go for a walk listen to quiet music read a book and try to excerise and please don't feel ashamed to communicate with one of us listeners. God bless 🙏

Beautifulbutterflysweetheart

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User Profile: redmark
redmark OP May 13th, 2019

Hey there @Beautifulbutterflysweetheart *offering safe hugs*

We are really glad to have you here with us! heart

Thank you very much. This is such an important topic and sadly there is still a strong stigma surrounding it and discussion and encouraging messages about it like this are very important to help to get rid of that stigma.

Sometime hard times can really beat us down and it can be really hard at times to reach out for help but it is always definitely worth a try at least and listeners, like you, here are providing a really good way to reach out to caring and amazing people - like you, once again :)

Stay awesome! heart

User Profile: crimsonLime6525
crimsonLime6525 May 13th, 2019

@Beautifulbutterflysweetheart I apologise if anything I said was wrong. I won

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User Profile: redmark
redmark OP May 13th, 2019

@crimsonLime6525 *offering safe hugs*

It is really nice to see you around here! heart

I do not think you have said anything bad. I think it is important that we do reach out and talk with eachother here and just be here for eachother and you are doing a really amazing job at being there for others here. :)

Stay awesome! heart

@crimsonLime6525 you are awesome and you are good and I forgive you and I don't mind helping you at all. I am here for you.

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