Traumatic Experiences Community Daily Check-in Saturday 9th of March, 2019
Happy Saturday to you all! I have missed you all so much. 
How are you feeling today? :)
How has this week been for you? Do you have anything you would like to share about it? :)
So, I have been thinking, and I do not know about you, but I feel like this place could really use some pillow forts, don't you think? :P
I mean, just to make our little safe spae here even more safer...and more comfy...and fluffy ^-^
So, yep, everyone is welcome to just join in our pillow fort and bring your own little touch to it and hide away from the world for a bit.
Also, while we are here, do you have anything on your mind you would like to share?
I mean, I always have those little "stupid" thought which I always just feel like it would be totally off-topic and just do not want to bother people with it anyway or just feel like they are, well, "stupid". They are not stupid tho and you would not bother me at all and this thread is open to whatever may be on your mind, I would really be glad to listen :)
Of course, as always, all of the above questions are optional, there is no pressure on you to answer any of them. If you would just like to come say hi or just join and sit with us we would be really happy to just have you around here with us as well!
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@redmark just going to sit for a little while if that
Hey there @crimsonLime6525 *offering safe hugs*
Of course it is okay, we are really glad to have you here with us anytime!
I am sorry to hear that you are having a hard week tho. If there is anything we may be able to help you with we are here for you. You are not alone in this! :)
No pressure tho ^-^
Stay strong and awesome!
@redmark I wrote words down for the first time in a post in here and still not sure if to get it removed or not. In a very confusing place
@crimsonLime6525 Oh, I see, that sounds confusing and scary for sure but I want you to know that here you are in complete control. I have not read your post yet and I, even though I am curious, I will only do it if you are okay with it.
Would you be okay with me reading it? - remember, there is no wrong answer, you will not hurt me if you are not okay with it, I understand that this is hard for you now.
I mean, either way, I am really proud of you. This is a big step, and no matter how you will decide, you are doing a really good job :)
@redmark I don
@crimsonLime6525
Hey Lime, good to see you here today.
Wow, you shared some stuff in a post here for the first time? Sounds to me like you were really brave. Way to go! 👏👏👏
Heyy Red how are you
Hey there @CaringBrit *offering safe hugs*
It is always really nice to see you around here!
I am doing okay, thank you for asking. I am feeling down and depressed for a good while now but there is no real reason to it so that could be better but overall nothing too bad or stressful happened lately so I am okay. Thank you for asking! :)
What about you? How are you today? :)
I mean, either way, it was just really nice to see you around here! ^-^
Stay awesome!
@redmark im good
Today I talked very openly about very deep pain of mine, still find it hard to recover after that one.A lot of came up and it's been hard to find peace, lots of thoughts.
Hey there @Morfo66 *offering safe hugs*
It is really nice to have you here with us!
You know I am really proud of you. It is a really big step to open up like that but you are doing a really good job. Of course, I know it an be hard because it can just stir up a lot of emotions, feelings, and thoughts but I want you to know that you are not alone in this and if there is anything we may help you with we are always here for you so feel free to reach out to us anytime here :)
Together we can get through this. I believe in it anyways and I do definitely believe in you! ^-^
Stay strong and awesome!
hello Red
hope you are well
Hey there @scarletPear1945 *offering safe hugs*
It is really nice to see you around here!
I am doing okay, thank you. I hope you are doing well too! :)
Either way, it is really just nice to see you around here again ^-^
Stay awesome!
@redmark
You always have such uplifting words, Thanks
@redmark - I love that pillow fort image :)
Hey there @wontwakewontsleep *offering safe hugs*
It is always really nice to have you here with us!
I am glad you like that image. I can totally imagine myself hiding away in that pillow fort, I mean, I am a big fan of those lights! ^-^
...and teddy bears....and fluffy things :P
Stay awesome!
Hi Red.
Its always good to hear from you. I enjoyed your rooting for you pictures. I do enjoy a good plan. :-)
Sounds like youve been going through some stuff lately. Sorry youve been dealing with that but thanks for still being here and helping all of us.
Im not really sure how I am exactly. Well, in general I am actually doing much better than I have been in a very long time. So I am quite pleased about that. And grateful. But I have been sort of grappling with a memory tonight. From the not so great part of my past and something I hadnt really worked through before. Its getting better so thats good. Wish that stuff and happen though. Im trying to keep reminding myself that it doesnt change who I am or mean anything about me as a person. Im just as valuable as I would be if none of that stuff had ever happened. Maybe even more so, because Ive been through some stuff and I still choose to be a nice person, a good person, and a person who cares about others and tries to make a difference. Thats pretty amazing right?
Hey there @pioneeringBanana1598 *offering safe hugs*
We are really glad to have you here with us!
I am glad you have liked that picture. I just love these kind of word plays as well :P
Aww, do not worry about me. I mean, I am dealing with anxieties and some depression for a looong time now so it is okay, I am mostly used to it and there is nothing too bad happening right now anyway. Thank you tho, it really means a lot that you do care about me like that :)
YES! You are pretty amazing!
I mean, I am so happy tho hear this from you. I think it is very important that you can see that whatever happened with your was not your fault and does not define who you are and the fact that you do decide to face it and you grow like this while doing so is truly making you such a special, strong, and brave person. Someone I do really admire for all thos qualities and someone I am really, really proud of.
Of course, I understan that there are still ways to go but it is totally okay. Whatever you may be facing, you are not alone with it. We are here for you and together we can get through this and you can get better. I beleive in it anyway and I do really, really believe in you. :)
No pressure tho, take all the time you may need ^-^
Stay awesome!
I'm feeling much better now that I'm on 7cups. I actually have a permanent fort in my room! I have an awkward nook space (I think it was supposed to be for... Like... A closet? It's too small to fit a dresser in there... There's nowhere to hang clothes... I'm not sure what it could be used for besides a blanket fort, if I'm being honest. I put down pillows and blankets and plushies, hung up pictures and fairy lights and voilá! I retreat there to read, or play videogames, or draw late at night, or hang out with friends. I actually have a window in the nook, and I put a new eucalyptus plant on the windowsill that I'm growing myself! It's a very positive, safe, and cozy space. You're all invited (though, realistically it can only fit 3 people max)!!!
Hey there @betterchoices *offering safe hugs*
It is always really nice to have you here with us!
Oh...a built in space for pillow fort sounds awesome :P
I mean, I will not lie, i kind of envy you there, I would love to have such a nice little nook or corner for myself and for even friends as well. Also, I am really big fan of fairy lights as well and just in general it sounds like such an amazing place to hide away from the world and just read or watch movies or so. ^-^
I guess more than anything I am just happy that you have such a space and I will keep in mind your invitation for later :P
Stay awesome!
@redmark *safe hugs back* :) Thanks so much. Yes! You're definitely invited. I'm certainly very lucky! I went from sleeping on a couch for two years (without any privacy for four) to my very own bedroom with a blanket fort space! I'm very grateful and would love to share it with anybody!