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Traumatic Experiences Community Daily Check-in Tuesday 4th September 2018

User Profile: nolongerafraid
nolongerafraid September 4th, 2018

Hello lovely trauma family,

Often life's not all what it seems and appears to be all doom and gloom after too many broken dreams.
I have been kinda stuck there for a while but I realize I can chose to change what I look at. There is still so much beauty out there that is worth our focus and attention.

I remember watching a documentary once about the fjords in Norway and I was so in awe. Somewhere on the top my bucket list is to go there and just be.



What is the most beautiful thing you have ever seen?
Do you have anything on your bucket list, something that you just have to see or experience?

Or pop in to say hi! You're welcome here. This is your space and a safe place. And so glad to have my check in buddy and dear friend Rozie alongside me. Love from Rozie and Mas x

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User Profile: humorousBeing8966
humorousBeing8966 September 4th, 2018

@nolongerafraid

Hi! That picture looks very surreal.

I've been very unproductive. Even the hurtful thoughts have stopped punishing me because they know other people will punish me for not doing anything for so long. I'm still having trouble.

Bear is here though.

That picture reminds me of a fjord with a rainbow over it. It was quite surreal. Mother nature sure is beautiful. I want to see beauty again.

Hope all is well.

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User Profile: nolongerafraid
nolongerafraid OP September 4th, 2018

@humorousBeing8966 I am glad Bear is there with you. I have a 🦁 to keep me company. They can be our best friends at times. 💖

That rainbow over the fjords must have been breathtaking! I live in the Netherlands. We don't have any mountains or hills whatsoever. It is all flat. To me mountains have something magical and majestic about them.

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User Profile: humorousBeing8966
humorousBeing8966 September 4th, 2018

@nolongerafraid

Hehe I read that Bear and 🦁 can be best friends cheeky Silly brain skipping over words....my bear is the same shape as the emoji so he can just roll on over to make new friends ^^

It was truly breathtaking ^^ The trip was a happy memory. Hopefully the weather is great in the Netherlands at the moment. I saw in the news that there were strong winds a while back. sad

Is it magical because of the unknown and hidden creatures that reside there? I'm thinking about Avatar now and the majestic creatures in the film...cool

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User Profile: nolongerafraid
nolongerafraid OP September 4th, 2018

@humorousBeing8966

Well Bear, roll on over laugh

I love Avatar! Now that you mention it, maybe I should watch it again.

I was thinking more in the line of LOTR, lol.

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User Profile: humorousBeing8966
humorousBeing8966 September 4th, 2018

@nolongerafraid

I want to roll on over with Bear and escape crying

I messed up more this time

Maybe I can escape into the majestic mountains in LOTR

I need to be cuddled like in my dream, but unless it's a stuffed bear I don't think I'll be fine with that.

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User Profile: nolongerafraid
nolongerafraid OP September 4th, 2018

@humorousBeing8966

You come along then and I'll cuddle you. We will have a group hug with Bear and Lion. So we will all be safe. 🤗

Messing up is okay, you just get up and try again. It will get better! 💖

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humorousBeing8966 September 5th, 2018

@nolongerafraid

Thank you smiley I like feeling safe...

I'm going to try again today when it gets less scary..

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User Profile: nolongerafraid
nolongerafraid OP September 5th, 2018

So do I @humorousBeing8966, so do I.

💖

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User Profile: rozie
rozie September 4th, 2018

@nolongerafraid

Thanks Mas! Love your picture..I always feel at home in rugged hill country with deep water. Think it comes from my Scottish heritage.. in Caithness where my grandparents grew up.

But something beautiful that comes to mind is being on the sea, and watching the sun rise over the water. Only the sea right to the horizon, and then slowly this golden globe of light appearing, growing larger and spreading its glow across the water. A magical moment. x

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User Profile: nolongerafraid
nolongerafraid OP September 4th, 2018

@rozie

I love sea too. I could sail along the coast of Norway and enjoy the best of both worlds. smiley

Have you ever been to Scotland? Nature sure is beautiful. And so diverse. I love it! heart

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rozie September 4th, 2018

@nolongerafraid

I can just see you saling along the coast of Norway.. can I join you? Then its so close to Scotland, a short flight will bring me to my homeland. Something that's on my bucket list. x

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User Profile: nolongerafraid
nolongerafraid OP September 4th, 2018

@rozie Yes, I would love to have have you join me. 💖

Scotland is around the corner, we could do that.

Great adventure 😍

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User Profile: CaringBrit
CaringBrit September 4th, 2018

@nolongerafraid oh wow thats a gorgeous pic i can see why you were in awe

also can i be added to future taglists please @DaisyLion

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CaringBrit September 4th, 2018

@nolongerafraid mot beautiful place ive seen the lake district in great Britain it has that awe feelings its surrounded by mountains the scenery is just beautiful breathtaking from 2500 ft as ive climbed one of the mountains

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nolongerafraid OP September 4th, 2018

@CaringBrit

That sounds awesome too. When I was in England we went for walks in the woods there. I think they were hills, not mountains but it is something else to climb up. I am impressed! Since we don't have hills or mountains here, I am not used to anything. lol

User Profile: crimsonLime6525
crimsonLime6525 September 4th, 2018

@CaringBrit I agree with you on that one. I live there so have it all on my doorstep. Spend a lot of time just wandering, taking in the views and just escaping.

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CaringBrit September 4th, 2018

@crimsonLime6525 wish i lived near the lake district super lucky :) how are you feeling today lime

User Profile: LoveFromSara
LoveFromSara September 5th, 2018

@crimsonLime6525

That sounds wonderful Lime, anture can be such a beauty

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User Profile: nolongerafraid
nolongerafraid OP September 4th, 2018

@CaringBrit Awesome, isn't it!

I would love to be there. All by myself. Without anyone needing me for anything. So I can just be.

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CaringBrit September 4th, 2018

@nolongerafraid definetly is and those woods must have been lovely peaceful etc

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September 4th, 2018

I want to see the Ifo tower someday or go to Jerusalem.laugh

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User Profile: CaringBrit
CaringBrit September 4th, 2018

@scarletPear1945 ooo those are must sees for sure

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September 6th, 2018

@CaringBrit

I am going to Costa Rica for my birthday and make that one of my bucketslaugh trying to get a little travel in before I cantsmiley

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User Profile: CaringBrit
CaringBrit September 6th, 2018

@scarletPear1945 nice thats going to be an awesome birthday hope you have so much fun :)

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User Profile: nolongerafraid
nolongerafraid OP September 4th, 2018

@scarletPear1945 Oh Jerusalem I would love to see! And feel. I hear it has a special feel to it.

The tower is impressive, I have seen that. It is really pretty at night with the lights.

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September 6th, 2018

@nolongerafraid

How are you?

I bet you enjoyed that trip.

I think going to Jerusalem will be a bit pricey? what do you think?laugh

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nolongerafraid OP September 6th, 2018

@scarletPear1945 I have been there a couple times and I have loved it yes.

I am a born Jew. I have not been brought up Jewish but I do feel a connection to the land. I don't know it is also emotional I think and I am not ready for that yet. But I would love to go there when I am.

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September 7th, 2018

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User Profile: rozie
rozie September 4th, 2018

@scarletPear1945

Sounds great Scarlet! Hopes and dreams and a bucket list.. all good to have.

Hops you are doing ok. Much love. x

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September 6th, 2018

@rozie

Hi

I am doing ok. Waiting on the new meds to come in the mail for this cranial neuropathy pain in my head. Got to keep pressing my waysmiley

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rozie September 6th, 2018

@scarletPear1945

Hi

Good to hear this, and do hope the new meds relieve the pain. Keep on keeping on. x

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User Profile: LoveFromSara
LoveFromSara September 5th, 2018

@scarletPear1945

Jerusalem sounds nice, with all the old history and culture

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User Profile: wittySpruce8187
wittySpruce8187 September 4th, 2018

@nolongerafraid

hey Mas and everyone! (:

Today's kinda been a long awaited day and I had some good times with my mom and sister

I too want to see Israel and a lot of places

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nolongerafraid OP September 4th, 2018

@wittySpruce8187 I am happy you had a good time.

I really hope you get to visit Jerusalem. 💖

User Profile: LoveFromSara
LoveFromSara September 5th, 2018

@wittySpruce8187

Im glad you had a good time with your family

Israel sounds amazing, lots of culture and beautiful nature

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User Profile: scarletWheel8308
scarletWheel8308 September 4th, 2018

That looks beautiful!

Really want to visit Indonesia (:

User Profile: Rebekahwriter13
Rebekahwriter13 September 4th, 2018

My current bucket list

Win the jackpot to the Mega Millions

Take mom's side on a cruise

Take dad's side on a cruise

Write, publish, and tour my books

Have my own professional website, connecting my writing blog https://rebekahquinne.wordpress.com and a fan club

Have my own place near or next family (I want my own air-conditioned office with a specially made desk.)

Rebuy my grandparents old land and rebuild on it

Have dinner and LARP/ RP dice parties

Truly inspire someone

Make a cat cafe

Meet multi celebrities

Give to charities

Travel: England, Italy, France, Canada, Japan, all over USA

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User Profile: LoveFromSara
LoveFromSara September 5th, 2018

@Rebekahwriter13

I like that bucket list, lots of things to do, lots of things to look forward to

User Profile: CaringBrit
CaringBrit September 5th, 2018

@Rebekahwriter13 ooo your a writer ? what genres do you write most ? awesome bucket list

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Rebekahwriter13 September 5th, 2018

@CaringBrit

Genres: paranormal, horror, occult, drama, thriller and erotica.

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User Profile: CaringBrit
CaringBrit September 5th, 2018

@Rebekahwriter13 genres i tend to read :) i love mysterys adventure too fingers crossed your published :)

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Rebekahwriter13 September 5th, 2018

@CaringBrit

I have some short stories posted on my blog rqshortstories on WordPress.

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