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Do not have mum

User Profile: crimsonMelon8700
crimsonMelon8700 February 28th, 2017

I feel as though I do not have a mum. She will not stop shouting at me although I am an adult. She thinks that I am stupid.

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March 1st, 2017

@crimsonMelon8700

First, you are perfect in every way. You are the only way I'd want you to be right at this moment!

There . isn't a school for moms & dads. Sadly, many didn't have proper people to guide them. As you become older, you end up realizing that you no longer measure yourself by someone else's ruler. The best you can do is the proper thing that allows you to look at yourself in the mirror.

It may be possible that your mom needs some help. Although that's not your responsibility, you may want to let her know that you wouldn't think less of her if she looked for assistance-- in fact you'd be pleased she was trying to help herself so she could be there for her daughter (and send cookies to a bloke across the pond, who lived in Oxfordshire for 10 years and gives her daughter amazing advice). ;)

Try and be strong and remember you are what you make not what others think.