How do i escape an abusive gf
So my gf has been abusing me verbaly, mentaly, and physicaly. Last night she threw the dinner i made at me because i "didn't wait for her". So how do i get away.
@Dubutron1234
I'm very sorry that you even have to go through this,
But I'll assume that you two live together? If yes, this will be a bit harder but try looking for other places to take refuge in; whether it be with your family, close friends or renting your own little apartment for the time being in secret. I recommend asking your family or friends as they can help protect you if she ever comes knocking down the doors looking for you, and they can generally help you emotionally and mentally.
She is abusive, probably would be a manipulator as well, these two traits come hand in hand. Words are their strongest weapon, so I think it's wise to leave without prompting any conversation with her. She might try to twist your own words, say you're overreacting, say she'd be lonely without you, and other discouraging words that might make you rethink your decisions. So don't try to part with any apologise or reasons, leave before she gets a say. No one can have excuses/reasons for being abusive.
After cutting off any physical contact with her, block her from your social platforms as well. Block her from contacting your phone number, instagram/facebook/etc. accounts, everything. Don't give her a chance to ever communicate with you, at least for a few months until you've healed.
Stay safe with people you trust- they will all be behind your backs, and perhaps start to consider counselling? Therapy? Or even just talking about it with someone close. Abusive relationships always are a big toll on someone's health, so please take care :)
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