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Past traumas are effecting my new relationship.. anyone else?

User Profile: quietPlace4938
quietPlace4938 October 31st, 2021

I've recently gotten out of a terrible relationship and have started seeing someone who is so much healthier for me.. problem is, I'm grieving not only the last relationship.. but also a miscarriage. This new person deserves to be happy, as do I. Anyone else ever go through anything like this?

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul November 11th, 2021

@quietPlace4938 I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you. I hope you can talk openly about your grief with your partner or a friend. I'm glad you got out of the terrible relationship you were in and found someone who is healthier for you.

Trauma has a way of affecting every aspect of life unfortunately and it isn't something that we forget about. Have you given any thought to finding a therapist to speak with? Many trauma based therapists have many different tools to guide you towards healing and happiness, for both you and your partner.

I hope you take good care of yourself and I wish you the best in your journey towards healing. You will be in my thoughts. ❤️