Please help!
I have been with my husband for 6 years. Have 2 children together and were very happy at the start. It's all gone wrong since his brother died and the abuse, control and manipulation has been on going for 2 years. He left me a few months ago and blames me for all his abuse etc and his family have turned their back on me saying I provoked him. Even though I am not with him he still verbally abuses me and controls me. I have no self worth, confidence or want to be around anymore. He said I would never find a man who would put up with me or my stretchmarks :-( I fear I will be alone forever and I can't stop ringing him crying to him. Please help and any advice would be greatly appreciated. I think he is a narcissist and i think he has already moved on with someone at work :-(
Thank you. He is happy and getting away with it. When will he get his karma? I am a nice person and just keep getting constant bad luck. I just want to stay in bed all day xx
So sorry to hear what you are going through @Julesh29... and know it doesn't seem fair that he goes on with his life regardless.Life can seem very unfair at times. . And for now you are likley grieving for the loss of the relationship. This is hard and painful... can understand how you want to stay in bed. But if as you say the relationship was abusive and he was a narcissist, in time I think you will appreciate that for you and the children you are well away from this.You deserve better. Please be gentle with your self and reach out for the support you need.We are here for you.
@rozie thank you so much for you're kind words. This has really helped me x
What do I do if she wants a break and want to get better for her self and for me and out relationship and also wants me to better my self as well because I'm so in love with her that I don't want loose her so what do i do?