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life after DV

User Profile: aphroditeatomic
aphroditeatomic September 26th, 2022

Really struggling with adjusting to life after a 2 year long abusive relationship.

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User Profile: LadyDunan
LadyDunan September 26th, 2022

Hi. I've been there... how are you feeling ? What bits are messing with your head the most?

User Profile: LadyDunan
LadyDunan September 26th, 2022

I'm here for you

User Profile: aphroditeatomic
aphroditeatomic OP September 26th, 2022

Just being able to just let him go out of my head.

User Profile: LadyDunan
LadyDunan September 26th, 2022

OK.... what's the biggest thing you are holding on to? For example I found with mine that I kept holding in to what could have been my life if he were different...

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User Profile: jcqlinshots
jcqlinshots October 4th, 2022

@LadyDunan

Personally, I think about how he used to be and remembering how amazing it was to finally meet someone better than my exes then I start thinking about why I wasn't enough for him to change back.. Then I start thinking about all the things I've lost since I met him. I'm struggling with forgiveness and letting go/moving on. How did you cope with everything after your relationship ended?

-Jacqueline

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User Profile: jcqlinshots
jcqlinshots October 4th, 2022

@aphroditeatomic

First, I'm sorry you're struggling and you're not alone. I'm actually right there with you, literally, and I'm struggling too. My relationship was just for a year and I just recently left, but I experienced so much that I've never experienced before. I hope better days find you ❤️

-Jacqueline

User Profile: sociableAcai4947
sociableAcai4947 November 15th, 2022

How do I do this, my abusive boyfriend got arrested